The functional discipline of every decision that binds people or objects  together, is "I have met, the one that completes me".  To achieve that dimensional description, there must be an environment established.  To conceive of an environment with someone else you must understand:   every heartbeat understands, time has a boundary.  Within that boundary, there is an environment both of body and spirit (a truth defined: life, on earth will die).  Therefore the question that envelopes every decision of an environment becomes: will I share this with you/ will you share this with me, and what can we offer each other to sustain not only our lives, but our individual selves (our happiness and hope in life to fulfill love) as well.  We thereby come to the relationship, which is love and love alone/ as it is clear hate simply intends to destroy all relationships ( a useless thing to life)/ and survival of the body is a limited expression, because no one escapes death forever.  That leaves us with love as the only relationship which conforms to the single ingredient required: why!

Why is the discovery of disciplines which shape and control our lives.  Without discipline there will be chaos, because no matter what you believe; "plans" have a way of changing your participation in life and living; most fail/ some succeed with results that were not planned for.  Only a few actually exist as a description that then becomes a part of your existence.  So there will be why?  To explain how it is that the dimensional aspects of our lives have changed/ the relationship formed, rearranged.  These are functionally "rhythm alterations" in the life we know.  Those who work at it, will reapply themselves to become "a new unit" in time.  Those who don't will gradually separate by growing farther apart/ until the bond snaps and each is again, cast adrift.

So then we ask an elemental question: WHY, does a rhythm represent a power that binds?  That is functionally a participant on the atomic scale; to learn why, we must ask questions that lead to life/ the elemental descriptions of planetary gravity; and more.  That is CLEARLY NOT in your best interest.  So it cannot be done.

An alternate discussion is: what makes male and female a discipline associated with elemental structures?  The critical strain of building a life, REQUIRES a desire for that life to survive.  It is functionally clear, that male and female desire each other; because what each contributes identifies a participation the other demands or desires.  So we build an identity together, replacing the environmental boundaries of me, and you/ with the essence of us. To assemble an intricate reality based upon mutual consent: there must be rhythms that understand "now/ not now/ soon/ or never".  Conversations attempt this, but are incomplete.  Actions demand this, but lack the fundamental knowledge of why.  What works, is an understanding shared that recognizes to be as one, the freedoms requires as "I" cannot be simply dismissed.  Or more simply, the right to exhibit and define yourself, cannot be undone by the union between male and female.  Respect understands that, and those who learn to participate within honesty, and forbearance ; find happiness. Those who search only for self, find distance; and keep away the treasury of their heart.

A value that every other wants, is called a treasury.  But the reality of want insures, this is related to time alone.  Therefore time triggers a response in humanity unlike the rest/ because time suggests we cannot wait for what we want.  Thereby treasury comes to mean:   if the others want me too/ then I have options, and need not choose you.  The boundaries expanded for one/ enclosed and shrinking for the other.  However if measurements have left me lacking/ the elemental battle to not remain alone surfaces in desperation as the price I must pay to keep you with me.  To own/ or be owned, enters.  To participate without, the rhythms that bind us together/ replaced by the demand: I can give you what you want.  Which elementally means:   the desertion of us, to become entangled in self/ the participation unshared, which will extract a price.

 Human rhythms mean:   I will add in, wherever you lack/ shared by the decision in opposite existence that says, "I too" shall add in wherever you lack as well.  Thereby "the heart pounds stronger"/ because we share the exertion (the price) that becomes our lives together.  Few do.  Most simply want whatever they want; and leave the rest, or demand the rest; from the other.

The second path of human rhythms is: I will share this experience with you/ thereby together we will create, an even greater existence within ourselves, because you cared to join me; and did not fail to honor our existence together as one.  That means not only did we work together, we became in truth, "our best friends".

The elemental human experience of sexual relations is governed by the simple truth:   will you share this experience with me/ or simply take what you want?  To share requires, that my life, my pleasures, my pain, my hopes, and my needs shall emerge are your desire to please on both sides.  To simply take what you want, requires nothing more than "self"/ apart from simply using the body of another.  There is an immense difference in the relationship you will build accordingly.  Shared is elementally a respect defined by rhythms identified and defined. That means you must listen with your heart, and ears to hear what your partner needs or desires.  Want is a battering ram, that forces open doors with damage all around.

The critical question of human sexuality is, can we search in each other, "for life"?  Because life is not so simple as time alone.

We begin here with the elevation of alone, to its dimensional existence:   if not born/ then who am I?  The meaning of born thereby changes to the influences of life changing me:   from a simple expression/ to the experiences that redefine/ thereby creating an experience that is "reborn" as a participation in you.  To be born in time recognizes existence.  To be reborn, is to understand, we don't really feel alive until this experience is honestly shared, by truth.  Truth is a foundational element of spiritual awareness.  With truth, there is a door to experiences beyond ourselves.  Without truth, there is no meaning but self; its called want.  The difference is extreme, and clearly without equal.  So the elevation of truth in our personal lives opens the door to the experiences shared by another life of the opposite sex: because that is how nature made us to be.  There are no exceptions.  To accomplish truth in your life requires "alone" for the period necessary to affix the boundaries assigned by personality/ and learn the elements of discovery that are:   why, how, who, when, where, and what.

 Personality means: I have deliberately set the goals of my life to be accomplished by these efforts I do make.   So the question is, which can only be decided within yourself:   WHAT do you demand from your existence?  The fundamental of WHERE truth, or your interpretation of reality will lead you come next?  The descriptions of who and/ or, why this or these will lead you to this destiny must be assigned.  The simplified demand of HOW, struggles within your own realities.  When asks, why not now/ or soon?   Each of these shapes the decisions you will make, as well as your interactions with others.  Each of these are fundamentally self, and cannot be exchanged with another/ because they define you.  Which leaves us all with the inner truth: to belong within the life of another/ we must literally give up some of "ours (together we go beyond ourselves)". 

Alone presents us with the price of isolation/ that in turn visits upon us, the desire to share, the meaning applied by the word care:   to appreciate another respectful living creation as a blessing to life, and to me.  Or, we have then elevated life itself, to a slightly higher plateau because of loneliness/ thereby giving ourselves an ascent in value, as well. 

Life comprehends a price.  The question is;   are you willing to pay?  Everyone replies:   how much will this cost!

The function of truth in every relationship is then, to determine and define "how much this will cost".  Which causes the liar to appear, because want does not deal in truth; it simply wants/ and the measurement is, "what is best for me/ is best for you; even if you don't want this".  Want hears and hides, whatever it is that could potentially cause concern;   until it is too late, "I got mine".  Regardless of you, I am contented now.  The difference between contentment and happiness is: "I won, you are my trophy"/ rather than I loved;  welcome into my life, my hope, my heart, and my home.

Want however is not easily satisfied with a trophy for long/ the game is over, the cheering has ended; reality begins for both.  Therefore want struggles to find a solution, another game to play, another trophy to win:   OR CHANGE you into something else so that the price of lies can be diminished.  That demand is particularly unfair, because it searches to destroy the very things desired in the first place/ it searches to destroy you.  Not because of a personal vendetta, but because the price paid was too high.  I wanted you "with everything"/ but now the truth is, I don't want the life we represent;   I want more, or I want something else that lies did not allow me to see.  All suffer the loss of truth, in one way or another.  Truth is, what truth is: you cannot remake or rebuild it into something else: it is what it is.  If you don't accept that truth in its entirety, and accept the price of living within those boundaries:   you do not want the relationship.  Simple and plain.

Time heals if you let it.  Life and the lies we all endure come to an ending that cannot be shared.  We can continue to care, honest love never really dies;   but only where truth returns to govern every relationship, because nothing else matters in eternity (this survives).  

Want does not survive, because it is commonly disguised within a lie.  That lie may be deliberate, or simply assumed; such as "all is fair in love and war".   Nothing is fair in war/ only truth is fair in love.  There is no common ground on a battlefield.  There is no battlefield in love.

The most common attribute in want is: I DON'T care about anything/ but what I want.  That is a descent from life itself, which allows us to care about everything equally, through respect.  The foundation value of "me first", either limits us, to an elemental association with survival as simply necessary for love too.  Or it takes you, to the critical understanding: I get more/ if you get less: I WIN.  Possessions are a trophy in themselves/ and people find greed:    "I got yours too/ because I am better".  So want searches for superiority, and finds opportunity through lies and lying to devalue life, and you/ even everything; because that is necessary to destroy, to become superior.  Destruction begins with want/ but it accelerates with hate.  Revenge opens the door to the fulfillment of hate, which is to declare yourself "god", over the other.  Such things as "I killed you/ etc" are forms of trophies hanging on the wall of your mind so to speak;  where they can be hidden. 

If you never accept learning better, than want or pride/ then you never have to accept: less than you believe you are.  But if you never learn what is true and important for life/ you cannot ascend beyond the limits of your own want;   to feel alive/ or find eternity.  Alive means, "I have joined the spiritual soul of this existence, and have become: beyond myself".  It is, an experience of love, and relationship!  NOT superior/ alive, the essence and expression of who we were intended to be.  NOT perfect;  alive, and freed to ask questions or find answers for the heart.  That which bleeds understands, life is leaving/ that which eats will acknowledge without this "bread", I will die.  The true question for humanity is:    Can you understand or know, that eternity is calling you?  It is an answer that needs soul/ because beyond self cannot exist without help.  Soul is a search only you can make for yourself/ it is the essence of being alone, followed by the search inside life that is beyond "self".  There are no books/ there are no religions/ there are no words or actions or reactions that will instruct you beyond the simple path:    Alone I enter/ together we proceed.  Life is a journey, soul is a home.  Respect the difference. Alone is an answer to the question: "is there anything but me, inside"?  Not in "fantasy and delusion"/ but life will answer for itself in definition and miracles.  None that exists as life or even mass and energy can be attributed to man or woman, or any other living creature; we are unable.  Therefore in the essence and reality of "perfect design/ and critical harmony that exists all around us: the evidence is clear, LIFE beyond us does exist.  The insanity of believing in the religion evolution is just plain beyond stupidity [we all came from unimaginable odds, out of chaos/ just "shopping" for what we wanted, is their claim.] What is so called scientific about that/ adaption is merely the evidence of perfect design, and accounts for nothing else.  Evolution is a sewer designed by human waste; it is complete fantasy.

Nonetheless, as life itself combines with our existence to prove we are not alone {even though physically alone}/ the relationship is a rhythm within itself.  The ascent begins with your acceptance and dedication to RESPECT.  Each step is an understanding cherished, that leads to a higher plateau in knowledge.  Every form of knowledge that builds, then creates the next structure upon which "stairs" can be placed.  Every desire is an acceptance of the price; we are nothing without "YOU";   the experience of life itself".  Life is not a personal dimension/ it is a living description.  A dimension is: "the top level of our ability to understand/ as supported by the bottom level of knowledge, that gives us rise to ask questions and attain wisdom.  Everything in-between is "dimensional space".  So the question is: are you content within the space you inhabit/ OR do you search for the elevation of love?  Love is a distinct challenge, to occupy a place of value, in both you and me:   where only honor and courage may go. 

Courage asks: even if there is nothing more valuable that love/ there are risks here!  Honor demands, "where the heart is willing to go/ there I shall be".  Nothing about love is a test.  Everything about love is a value, that can be increased through truth and respect/ or ripped away, by a lack of caring, or the refusal to care; or simply discarded by lies.  Everything about living however is determined by where the soul demands you must go.  Or more simply, even if love governs your heart/ life  MUST governs your actions or reactions.  We cannot simply have what we desire/ first we must remain alive, or at least living.  With a world threatened by extinction/ literal experiments trying to exterminate us, and a world being destroyed by human disrespect:   NOBODY gets to "just be, who they want to be".  First, this world must survive/ it is not a game.

Love is by its essence a rhythm expressed and sustained as the miracle of our lives, joined by the expression of our soul.  Love is never a want; you cannot measure it; you cannot judge it; you cannot own it.  Love is built upon the decisions of your heart, through the acceptance of your reality.  The question:  I have been, what I could be "for you".   The answer: is that enough?  Even though this is now a platform identifying your relationship/ love does not begin until you answer with truth; "am I, as I am, enough for you to believe in"?  If yes, for both; then love can begin.  Love is an environment separated from those who do not participate here.  Love is "a home" that lives within a desire that gives purpose to our lives; I choose to live for you/ you for me.  The rhythm of life is then changed, to join one to the other.  In death the essence of who we are, remains in truth.  The question: does that truth die with us? 

The answer: law remembers every truth.   But the question of law bring judgment to bear.  The question of judgment asks:  where is the value in this?  The answer is: wherever there is love shared in life, there is value.  What has value, is a treasury for this universe.  But even so, without a home, there is no purpose to value or to life: the earth is our home today.  The question of eternity asks:   WHERE could a home "for living spiritual truth" exist?  The answer: only where love remains alive!

As to the physical developments required for existence itself, even as thought;   much of that has already been answered on web sites I have provided.  As to the truth of what can be:   we return to our existence here on earth, and the evidence of true miracles surrounding us.  The evidence of JESUS, as proof we are not forgotten; and love is the essence that gave us life/ and gives us the possibility of eternity.  And remember:   NOT ONE THING, did I provide (you neither) for the life I have lived.  Not body or food or water or anything else;   I merely participated within the possibilities that are real.  I merely lived,  by the evidence of knowledge, wisdom, understanding, and the desire I chose for myself.  Or more simply, "our lives" are a gift/ why then question eternity beyond the simple meaning and proof of, we are here!

Life at its elemental essence, is like living on a sea of hope.  We are the ships searching for the one true place we belong.  Tied firmly together, as male and female, "we rise and fall as one".  But held only loosely by ropes, we do "beat each other up" particularly without bumpers to keep us apart.  Because the water of hope has a different rhythm for each one.  Each can travel a separate journey, because that is easier than to be held loosely.  Those few who do accomplish with complete honesty a journey as one/ do better. The truth that binds us however, is an unending desire, to replace that hope with the essence of you, and you with me. It is simply "the best".        Love is a passage, desire is a door, truth is a journey unto itself;   but home remains the singular relationship that gives us life.  Love is a desire created by you/ and me; the place we live inside ourselves; the place we search for soul (life, "born free") together.

The understanding of want, relies upon the elemental reality of loneliness.  Without want, every question is between "life and me".  To avoid that conclusion established by existence; the question is turned, to become "between humanity and me/ extended it is between male or female and reward or failure and me.  Pride intensifies the game, becoming arrogance.  Arrogance establishes "I can be like a god/ over you"; and the tragedy of measurements that disrespect all life begins.  The game of want is then in reality, a decision to avoid life, and play as a child.  Which does make religion, the elemental plea; have mercy on me/ I have ran away from my duty.

The deliberate teaching; to create platforms upon which you can grow, is now complete.  The elemental need to continue this work has been satisfied:   it is my hope, that the hypnotic trance that has captivated a world will be broken.  So that life can arise again/ if not, this is the best I could do for you.  The decision for better/ even for life on this planet, is entirely up to you.  The university lead you here/ the majority of men made it happen;   your reality is, deteriorating at a pace that will exterminate life on earth within twenty years at best/ and it is highly probable the end of all possibility to recover and survive ends at any time.  It is comforting to me, that the biblical reference of Daniel 12;   which establishes a date granting a little time left exists.  That does not make me religious; but it does perceive along with the other revelations/ or prophecies that have been interpreted:   respect should be given.  Nothing is a greater abomination than to ignite this world on fire, by the same processes that burn the sun.  Although the university experiments in other things are equal.  It is failure on top of failure/ and all you have to show for their efforts; is a long list of propaganda that defies reality.  You are not better off than you were in the past/ we face extinction.  You have not an easier life than in the past: the foundation of everything, including the money you worship has been stripped from you/ and is fully and completely leading you, to collapse in all-out chaos.  This nation called America is now filled with liars/ thieves/ cheats/ and fools.   Is not the electronic world stealing from you/ are not your leaders telling you it's a debt, instead of inflation (the truth)/ do they not cheat you out of the numbers.   DOES NOT EVERY experiment in environment, or oceans, or ozone, or water, or food, or genetics or extreme energy experiments and more END WITH:   WRONG, MEANS WE ARE DEAD/ as a world?   If you were not so extremely entranced with the propaganda they feed you "the toys" they create/ or depressed by the slavery they caused.  Surely you would know better.  But it is absolutely certain:    I did misjudge the power of greed on you.  As decades ago, I was certain you WOULD wake up; with such a thing as bringing the same fire here to this earth as is on the sun; a fire we cannot even hope to put out.   I was certain mutilating all life on earth would wake you; to the consequences such as seen in birth defects; but no, you want to be gods.  I was certain that being so overwhelmed with greed, the fact your leaders were stealing you blind, deaf, and dumb; would awaken you/ but no, "I AM going to get mine/ leave it alone" is all that could be found.  Still "in a coma" even at this late date though/ the mind fused with religious fervor, to an expectation we will be gods; we want slaves (not yet understanding you are the slaves) by following these in university delusion, & their fantasy "we (the special ones)  don't have to pay for this".  It is pathetic.  Cannibalism coming/ all water resources under extreme attack/ the oxygen we need to breathe ending (gone in fires, motors, and mass devastation of all things that create oxygen itself; proven true)/ even assassinating your own children, stealing their world, cheating their future, and joining in the lies so you can hide from the truth: because that, REQUIRES CHANGE.  Forty years, and even more gone; and I am still fighting an arrogance beyond belief.  A delusion accepted simply because of a tiny few things:   weapons of mass destruction are not your saviors/ the antibiotics which you worship, and built your entire medical industry; have literally become a grave threat, by population increase that will "eat us out of house and home" here on earth.  Toys and illusions are momentary; being told what to think, is an insanity; THINK for yourself/ search for yourself/ find understanding and seek wisdom: FOR LIFE.