Each of these responses is a reaction to Athe destruction of a trust@ a relationship that has proven false in some form or manner. The common response is to Ablame everyone associated with that person. The reality is that Atrauma or loss@ has begun to take up residence in your heart. The Aheart@ is defined as Athe reason I am willing to pay the cost for another individual@. The consequence is an anger exists.

The first response: Examines Amy life@ and all of the relationships of my past, and expects surrender because so very few friends are worthy of trust. This is an unwelcome invasion and therefore does require a fight/ IF NOT then you are a victim, and a casualty of ,a war that does NOT exist. The lie that Aeveryone is the same@ has won.

WE ARE all born to be CHILDREN OF GOD!

While it is necessary, to explain the problem to all, very few people have ears to hear with/ they are so lost in their own troubles or selfishness that they can not hear or are afraid to help. Therefore the reality of a broken trust, is simply; BEGIN AGAIN, do not Alook back@, but do teach.

The second response; IS an invasion of memories/ it is the past come to haunt you. These memories are always a mixture of true and false, wants, needs, & fears created by expectations that did not come true, as you wanted them to be, therefore in Amemory@ they begin to look like, dreams (the relationship of fears to wants). This is a description of reality & truth colliding into a kaleidoscope of feelings that must be sorted out. Failure to sort properly, means you will change inside. When it is severe enough, an intense cry for help occurs/ the distinct description of AI need to be forgiven, for all the cold, indifferent, judgments against other people that have occurred inside of me@. If you fail to repent/ then you become a judge/ the consequence is your truth fails and your eternity dies!

The third response; is the examination of dependency or more simply Awe do need each other. Desire is, Awhat we hope our lives shall be@ . This simple word then defines, our intent towards others to love, to enslave, to use, etc. Therefore an expectation exists that we have placed upon other people, to do for us, even though we have no right to ask. When these expectations fail, a lie most often occurs Athat they have damaged my/your life@ even though the reality is AYou selected or demanded more than they were willing or able to give@/ therefore the failure is yours. Your truth has therefore become Aan environment of only one life truly matters, your own@. This is the beginning of emotion, Athe battle, to persuade others, to do something for me@. Called a battle because Athis is important to me, even if someone else gets hurt a little@. The reality in extreme cases, is a war, where if you fail you become a prisoner of the Aothers@ and either personal abuse, drugs, suicide, depressions, anger or temperament tantrums, OR abuse of others, thief, violence, and even murder all stem from your own expectations. IF you fail to REPENT of these beginnings/ then PRIDE & ARROGANCE take over and lies remove the possibility of happiness, even into eternity.

The fourth response; Explains Athe rules of your life@. Here people are exchanged for Aactions & reactions/ in a sense people are ruled dangerous, therefore to live in this world danger must be carefully planned, as an assurance, that any human relationship can be survived. Danger, creates a Atrue@ sense of freedom & therefrom happiness is the reward, for a short time. Danger is not random acts of stupidity/ rather it is carefully planned & calculated expectations for the purpose of pride & arrogance. AI@ proved no one can harm me/ AI@ proved you can=t be part of my life, therefore you should leave me alone.

Rules exist to explain behaviors that other people accept or reject, or to explain actions can harm you. The lie that follows; AIf you know the rules, then you are in control@. The reality of control is, even if you think and act as a rule, you are in fact merely a slave to the rules. Inside people know this is true and do become angry or depressed or determined to inject misery into the lives of those who are happy/ that they may know Amy pain, after all they caused it@. As the years go by, the consequence is separation in all its forms/ sometimes violence because Athey believe their lives were controlled rather than lived@.

The predecessor of Happiness is freedom, the creator of freedom is faith in JESUS!

The fifth response; explains I DON=T feel life is worth working hard for, therefore I will only work as I must, not to die or go to jail. Because people are unkind I, won=t help them. Therefore let the other do my work! The common lie that goes with this is AI, am worth their efforts without pay, they enjoy doing these things for me, they look down on me so they should pay something, I am in really doing them a favor.@ The lie interpreted is AGODS= CREATION is for my personal use.@ PRAY FOR MERCY!

The sixth response; explains the realities of insincerity within personal relationships and the consequence of that failure. The common reaction to words & situations that cannot be relied upon as true (maybe/ maybe not) is to become separated from that relationship/ Simply if I cannot depend upon your help, then I cannot tolerate what must be your Alies@. Lie means, to define a direction and then Ago the other way (in this instance)@. Here the definition of truth applies the reasoning, Aliars, cannot be trusted@. This in its turn, becomes the primary direction & definition of all other relationships/ including Athe tests, used in dating, and other methods of setting traps@. The consequence of a lack of trust creates a tension in all social interactions; the simple AI just want to have fun, I don=t really care, or I changed my mind@ become symptoms of a Asecret agenda@ rather than a simple expression, in an uncomplicated life. Those who expect a secret agenda, believe they could be used or abused, so they are on guard/ and the relationship ends or suffers from, AI=ll just take what I want@. For others lack of trust becomes worry, anxiety, nervousness, and DOES change lives, which changes relationships, & families/ all because Ayou don=t make honest decisions, and keep them@! Do you Asee@ how important you truly are! Respect means to understand people need to be valued, and they need to know they are valued, this is accomplished when you/ they CHOOSE to spend time with me, because they love Ame@. This is an expression of happiness, because freedom has brought you here, not need or want, but an appreciation for Amy life@ and as such must be reciprocated or lost. Do you not want this in your own relationships do you not expect that you are worthy of someone=s love. Love is the existence of a hope that envelopes a truth about us, a faith that we are important to each other. Death removes everything but truth, decide now.

The seventh response; examines the human need as opposed to human want, the reality of want expects a treasure of some type and demands to share it. The reality of a need exists as the embodiment of time without a purpose, a wandering in the dark. The definition of purpose, is to create in oneself the existence of a life, this is different than living a life you received as a gift. A life inside means, there is something about living that is a treasure to you, a reason to be alive, a happiness which provides joy. This is your purpose and no one can define such a treasure for you/ you must choose or be without. Many do without, looking instead to others, and attempting to share in their treasure. This in turn leads to jealousy & mischief of all kinds. Freedom has a price, the price is to be sufficient within yourself, so that you may help rather than be a burden. The question of sufficiency is then simply Ado you love yourself enough, as a person, NOT as a winner or loser/ but as the existence of a reality in harmony with life?@ This is not a social question/ This is NOT about games/ This is a question called love defined as respect, for the miracle which you are, and for the miracle which this environment and the life in it represents. These descriptions are the difference between true companionship and the relationship created be honest love, and the consequences dependent upon want. Here the question returns to trust and being vulnerable to other people, life itself. Vulnerable means; AYou are allowed to see, the fears & needs & dependency & hopes & more that exist in an honest environment, and a true relationship@. In terms of marriage, nothing less than this, and an appropriate concern can create a union. If you Ahope@ for a relationship called forever, then hear and remember this: YOU are not entitled to see these things, rather these are exchanged for vulnerability in you, and if either fails pain shall come. The pain is a realization that this one wanted what the physical world call Aa treasure@/ NOT a relationship inside where souls meet. BEGIN AGAIN! YOU MUST, WALK THIS JOURNEY SLOWLY! In an honest relationship, it is OK to say no to forever (this is your life and it is their life, BUT it cannot be Aour life@ unless we both need it to be so). There shall always be those who emotionally demand to be first saying in effect, Aplease tell me a lie@, this is simply a first battle to a later Awar@. GIVE THEM TIME to choose you, or choose someone else. Remember this; that need is a truth, but life is a greater need/ desire can be intense, but life is greater than desire/ to entrap means Ato take a life, that is not yours to take/ punishment shall occur@.

The simple truth of each human being is this; you are what you want, because what you want determines everything you do, apart from need. The world is full of very lonely people, unfortunately these are distrustful, or emotionally distraught, hiding in all the wrong places, or afraid BE SIMPLE, not confined by a prison called your past, and search with your heart not your eyes and NEVER for your physical designs upon their possessions.

The experience of honesty creates the beginning of an understanding called truth. The critical reality is being honest with yourself, even if you do not like what you find/ then CHANGE IT! Accept who you are, body and all, or do what is honest and accomplish what is your true desire, this is a barrier is the simplist of truths, what do you truly want. If you pass through this barrier, life will become more clear. It is without the interference of human complications, that truth becomes a description that needs an understanding; why, how, when, what, and more. These create the questions: what was the beginning/ by what energy did this succeed/ what is the critical definition defining how and why this formed/ and what has this consequence created as an effect, is the beginning. This may be summarized as a Abody of works@ and applied to the physical statement Afor every action there is a reaction@. Simplified, each relationship exists confined by the boundaries of experience, becoming identified as an understanding created through knowledge. Here begins the journey into CREATION itself/ HERE, the word Atrespass@ DOES MEAN death or MERCY. CREATION MEANS LOVE EXTENDED TO YOU, a failure to RESPECT THIS will be at your own distress, and will be PUNISHED!

Remember this; if your CREATOR does not cause your own soul to condemn itself, or if you receive FORGIVENESS anyway, then MERCY has taught you a truth.

Life is NOT a battleground/ rather AWE@ make the mistakes and decisions that cause stress & strife. LIFE IN, the freedom of your soul, is NOT simply free, IT IS defined & dependent upon respect. Soul means capable of life, beyond your body! As energy & truth defined your life as I AM ALIVE! IT is forgiveness & mercy that cover your sin. Sin is a failure to respect life and living and GOD and JESUS and being in harmony with all life, and all truths. Eternity, means ALIVE by the blessing of a safe journey.

JESUS IS TRUTH, according to the Bible! Therefore the question created by this statement is WHY, and what did we learn. The answer begins with life; it is a blessing and a miracle given to you for your enjoyment, and for your opportunity to enter eternity with GOD. We begin with enjoyment itself or more simply HAPPINESS & LOVE & FREEDOM! Remember this simply: happiness is the reward for caring & sharing through the disciplines called respect. Those who learn respect also inherit the benefits of respect Ato find love in your own heart & soul@. Love is the honor of being worthy to be alive, to be a miracle, a gift of life to all. Love is shared, as an appreciation of value, yours and mine. Love does become the measure of our freedom upon this earth, because without love, nothing would exist. LOVE GOD THROUGH JESUS FIRST! THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT, because the failure to do this, means you are dependent upon the wisdom of your mind, rather than the love within your soul.

Do NOT Alove@ images, these are lustful manipulations of your own heart, through the concepts of social value. The reality of love is very simple, remove AI@ and then begin. What shall you find/ the answer is, the harmony of another life/ a life without loneliness. Harmony is the existence of a truth beyond love, the simple joy of acceptance without compromise (because nothing stands in the way).

To the old in age, it is your time to surrender your place here on earth/ the children need it/ just as you received your place as a child. Eternity CANNOT be earned or bought, not for any Agood@ work not for any price, IF you attempt to purchase by sacrifice/ Then your sin will consume you!