We begin the search for understanding as the precipice called fear, recognizing this is an arena of doubt, wherein that lack of knowledge regarding the truth identifies what is or is not true about the relationship you do share with life itself, in you.  It is a spiritual element (foundation cause) established by creation/ but described by the lack of trust, that life is your friend, love the essence of your way; as is identified in or by you.  The elemental acceptance of life as my true friend, regardless of death; I am alive, to know the difference between life and death; and that gives to me time.  Time adjusts the relationship of friendship, as love allows the ascension beyond simple self into the realm or dimensional discoveries that do identify truth.  Thereby completing the creation of life, by the contribution of self.  An identity is required, to survive.  Therefore the elements of what is not friendship arrive/ if you fail to understand the meaning:   our gift, is to be alive; as friends.
Fear is an elemental human foundation understood by the concepts and proof of predation, pain, loneliness, violence, abandonment, ridicule (we don’t want you) and especially hate (YOU have been judged WORTHLESS to me: you are without value, therefore I can do anything I want to you, without cause or concern).  This is not known to the people who have accepted friendship with their creator/ unless you accept the challenge to learn.
In my own search for the primal and distinct definitions of life/ what is life ascends as the most critical learning/ what is death asserts an independence that must not be discarded; and everything in-between is understood by the challenge to accept to accept the relationships which teach simply; so as not to disrupt the balance of truth, but plainly enlighten the cause and effect of associations which do interfere within this world called time.  Or more simply: NEVER search beyond the gate which reveals the reality/ it is never necessary to participate in anything but life and love;   to understand what is NOT valued as friend.  That said, the search in time or spiritual relationships with life/ can still be very intense;   if you are found lacking the truth of what you do need to know.

The basic knowledge required in either is:   do NOT guess, about anything.   If you do not know, then remain separate and apart from a decision that will only harm you; until you do know the truth.   The second: choose a direction and focus on the truth of what has value to you/ so as not to become lost in either time or spirit;   and find yourself in trouble.  The third: understand, what you do not and cannot control in time or spirit/ shall be whatever it shall be.  You can only account for yourself, you can only choose for what has value in you.  Therefore accept “you are not god”/ not even a little.  The fourth is: trust in our most basic foundation:   this body/ this life proves it is a gift from “my friend, who does love me”:   must exist to survive the spirit world.  It will be accepted by you, to be or live, at peace or within harmony as love in time.
These four, establish the primary barrier to all fear.
The functional element in time called death, illustrates the remaining three.   The demand to isolate and choose value in a life called time is transient, when established by the body or mind: therefore what has value must recognize life by its truth/ we are a miracle, and cannot know the limits of what we are as life itself.  Not gods, not even over the body which will die.
The critical test of friendship and love, as a relationship with life, is NOT about body or mind/ but surfaces as the balance between trust and truth.  Or more simply the truth identifies humanity as a body discarded/ but trust establishes, that life itself (what gives us rise from “water and dirt”/ to become the knowledge of life) is neither simple nor plain.  Therefore we are subject to its mercy, not gods over it.
The disciplines required by thought to emerge over the elements of body and mind as the essence of being alive itself.  Do establish the composition of a reality and a relationship that is beyond the limits of body or mind to transcend the basic description of life has now become: “that I think”/ rather than I breathe.  Without thought, there is nothing but energy or mass/ even in its most primitive state; life is an existence, because so level of recognition “I am alive” exists.  Which means simply; that thought itself, becomes the identity called life; rather than body or mind. 

Given these examples of knowledge, the reminder that understanding is up to you; examines the truth of what you choose to do, with the direction of a life that is governed by your choice.

Even so, fear remains as a major effect in the vast majority of human life and living.  Therefore it must be understood.

To attain that evidence of, a life confronted;   I chose to accept the challenge to understand; by descending into it “with a toe”; for a few minutes of evidence.  Arranged by the spiritual world, in Montana I believe;   the call came forth.  I then proceeded on a motorcycle for a short distance in the night/ turned a U-shaped curve; to be confronted with a pack of coyotes that were traveling across the road 50 feet or so in front of me from the edge of the forest on both sides 3 or 4 across & close together over the entire distance (no possibility of going around, or turning back).  At least 50 individual animals in my path.  I laid the motorcycle down/ walked up to the pack in the moonlight, prepared to fight; but could see in their eyes none ready to attack me.  So I turned around and walked back to the motorcycle & its light.  It is in the turning around (not knowing for certain) if I would be attacked or not, that the element of fear could arise.  They did not.  But I spent the night and next days, examining the reality of my own life, identifying a judgment made against a segment of society (although wrong, they still had a right to decide for themselves.  NOT my right to judge/ only the law does that.  I QUIT that).  And then encountered the elements of imagination that can control doubt/ thereby creating fear in humanity.  It is the illusion of a spiritual world that causes the intensity and corruption of reality.  The spiritual world exists ONLY for those who can and do abandon their beliefs (I want too)/ in exchange for the reality and relationship that accepts:   MY LIFE now exists here, in this truth, as well as time.   NOT for the faint at heart.  NOT for the curious or fearful, you will grow only “schizophrenic attributes”.  NOT for the meek.  Particularly NOT FOR the proud/ you will die.  And so on.  Those who do not respect the reality of spiritual truths/ end in the illusion of a spiritual world they cannot avoid;  which then becomes fear, as you can be attacked at any time.
Therefore we must divide the experience and expression of fear into the two base relationships that exist.  Fear in this world called time is identified as the realities associated with pain and death or loss.  Fear beyond the foundations of time that are alluded too in imagination and fantasy delusions; that seem real/ but are lies in and of themselves.  Are a completely different matter, and must be treated in alternate ways.
The element and expression of time is: that we do have limited control over our lives, the things we do, and the realities we encounter/ until death comes to take every single one.  That would mean simply: we can and will do, whatever we can, until that moment arises when we cannot survive or change the outcome of this moment ourselves.  Just have to accept the consequences and live or die because of the cost that is life in time.  No purpose in being overly concerned, suspicious, fearful, stressed, or whatever you wish to call it/ because we are limited. We will, do the best we can at any given time, and that is all we can do/ apart from being realistic about the truth of time, place, and needs.
The second set of fears is more complex, because it allows far less control until you surrender the assumption of a fight/ and accept the truth:    This is about a relationship with life that you have abandoned; and the consequence,  is now “trying to eat you alive; figuratively speaking”. 

We begin with the decision: which acknowledges a limited reliance on human life itself, as is defined by death, pain, etc.  And turns to, the question:   if I am to die, WHAT shall I want;  to prove to myself or society, life is worth living?   OR in the balance of that statement (the other side of strictly human decision):   WHAT shall I NOT want; to prove to this world, I can be god or separate, thereby superior:  without the need for other human interference?
That is a more critical question than you assume, because both isolate and define the illustrations of want by its imaginary context/ rather than your own reality in truth as time.  Or more simply “your want has become your imagination”/ and the result is, that since you do not control your imagination, but simply experience it.   The result is, as imagination grows, the loss of control in you as a participant in that fantasy;    seems to become real.

The question here is two fold:   WHY did you find it necessary to “invade the inner dimensions of your mind; as is the evidence of want”?  And what did humanity do, or not do:   to instill in you a need to escape from the realities of time, and find delusion as an initial resting place?  Those are questions only you can answer for yourself.  The search is simple:   identify what has influenced your life/ and then break it down into the essence of why did this influence your life: WITHOUT the endless assumptions people, society, media, religions, and the rest impose.  To do that, you must separate yourself from “the hidden voices” of others in the past or present: and identify your own truth, as a relationship with what is clearly and deliberately “nothing but the truth”/ without accessories.  It is not loneliness that results, but an influence of truth in you, “the presence of a friend, that is trustworthy”.  That presence is not “voices inside”/ not anything other than the knowledge, “life as it was meant to be, has returned”.
The corrective answers, to a life inundated or under attack with fantasy is assigned by the reality that you are able to accept as your own evidence of truth.  Truth survives time/ lies die;   a lesson of merit: try to learn it!  The necessary steps to a better tomorrow is:
1.  Do not hide in drugs or denial, that will only cause more trouble/ and can send you into the “living coffin (where true violence goes)” to hide. INSTEAD learn what is true about life and you, and rise above your own self interests.  Search for more in life, than just you.
2.  When under attack, do not participate/ which means do not acknowledge the attack, but choose instead to focus on only what is true, definable in this moment, and use your mind to remove the threat by self-hypnosis (focusing on only one small thing, and letting that VERY SIMPLE thing control this element of time.  Such as staring at a glass of water for instance; don’t need to think about it/ just need to regulate what is allowed in the brain).

3.  If the night, time to sleep attacks you: it is best to become more tired, so that dreams are not so prevalent/ it is best to remain a little cold, so that too many covers can cause more intense dreams to occur.  But far more important than that is: the facts are, the body will sleep until it has recovered sufficiently/ only then do dreams (threats) begin.  As a consequence, when the state of your consciousness has risen high enough for dreaming;   it is simple and plain, that you are also able to wake the rest of the way (no need to get up)/ and use your mind for other things, such as investigating the realities that are true in your life, this earth and so on.  Whatever interests you.  The first few nights, are a small fight/ as the mind tries to make you believe it needs further sleep.  Not true, because you will just start dreaming again.  After a week or so, the extra time for sorting through life’s mysteries and moments can easily become a happiness; work not such a burden, because there is time for other things.  It’s a choice.  Make the decision that recognizes LIFE is worth more than this/ LIFE is a world of miracles, eternity the distance beyond what I know, and what truth will reveal.
Fantasies are just lies covered over with or by the definitions we choose to accept as “potentially true”.  Truth is the uncovering of knowledge that cannot be proven wrong.  The difference is distinct.  If you don’t know the truth/ DON’T “theorize or play”; wait until you do.  Playtime simply restricts the reality of life, to only what you believe/ that is a descent from life itself (because you are not god.  And what you believe that is not true, is the delusion of a world that does not in fact exist), and ends badly for you.
Pray to GOD.  It is good for you.  Not by the elements of religion, which is the cumulations or calculations of what men believe.  But by the evidence of miracles, and the truth they present which cannot be denied; except by liars.  Prayer is not “your shopping list of wants”.  Prayer is your acceptance of RESPECT, and the beginning of trust; the most powerful tool, in the preservation of life itself; even eternally.

As we search into the basic definitions that promote dimensional differences within the reality of human existence/ the purpose is to seek and identify what goes wrong.  Because when it is right, none need question the happiness that exists, because it is real and without question.
One base element is:   that when people are unhappy with their family, situation, or friends;   they should, be required to live outside that “comfortable realm”/ and find themselves without.  So as to recognize what is true, and real.  Those who are descending into themselves, are in fact hiding from reality; so as not to face the consequences of what has already been done.  Hiding comes in many forms of disguise (my choice)/ running away comes only in one:   I fear/ therefore I must, it is not a choice.  Both are governed by fear, but only one is clearly afraid/ the other seeks desperately to prove I am not afraid: but is.  When the “runner” is released into society on his or her own, they are confronted with reality and must hide as there is no place left to run.  Hiding establishes drug addiction, and all that goes with it; because fear is an enemy, and life must reduce itself to believe “none will want me now”.  It does not work, until it works too well.  Suicide in one form or another follows many.

The “hidden in plain view”;   are more commonly reclusive and do demonstrate hate as an act of violence.   To prove I will not be revealed/ leave me alone.  The question of fear is:   I DON’T WANT that to happen to me!  Therefore, an intense drive in the hidden results as;   to remove this threat by believing two choices exist: either make the threat fear me instead (these become murderers, past the point of no return)/ or make myself an undesirable target (these become sullen and mysterious [WHY, would he or she do that, its insane?] in behaviors), or the alternative;  someone else targeted more so (these are con artists, etc). All are liars.  Each version seeks to prove that fear is a choice they intend to conquer.  Each version lies about themselves; so as not to change in ways that would bring relief.  Because pride is more important, than truth or life to them.  Those who do return to the “living”/ WILL remove the pride, and find salvation (no more predators inside) by accepting the very simple truth:   we cannot evade death/ we cannot control everything that could go wrong in our bodies or lives.  INSTEAD, we can respect life, and do the best we can; for our bodies, our world, and our relationships proving instead of hiding or running away:   “That I AM ALIVE”.   Let that be enough, let truth decide the rest; because it decides, not you; what this world/ this life/ and your own eternity shall be.  Be a friend to truth, it will return the favor.

Fear participates in your lives in a wide variety of ways.  Worry combines with denial;  to create a hidden world, wherein you are “a god” and can control the destiny of everything just by assuming worry WILL change the result.  It is not true, worry changes nothing but you, and your relationships with life and people.  It is a lie. 

Depression participates by descending “out of sight”/ so the others cannot see the truth of mistakes made.  Consequently they multiply into the grieving over a life that never was/ or was never intended to be. “I traded, or I bought, or I accepted, or I stole, or I ruined, or whatever it is that you hide from the rest”:   cannot be hidden from you.  Therefrom reality must be covered with tears, hidden in the glass “too full” of mistakes.  Tears will not help you.  Accepting the truth of your own reality, and moving forward with life, regardless of the past is the only answer that will.  Fear merely deepens the abyss in your own heart:   the feeling, my life has been lost.  While time returns for no one, the quest for happiness starts or ends with the reality of trust.  Who do you trust?  GOD, CREATOR of every miracle you see:   is the correct answer here.  You, are a part of that creation,   RESPECT your life, and live it better: BE HONEST, especially with yourself; NO LIES.  Do remember this: the people we live with, do become our experience and expression as the living/ its not a game.  People matter; accept them/ respect them/ treat them as friends, not enemies; but valued; and there will be rewards if not from the unworthy; clearly within yourself.

The fear of death as the only distinct CANNOT escape this reality;   proves a more wide ranging reality of attempted escape.  The most prevalent today in america is: “doctor save me/ GIVE ME A PILL”.  The money and pride for doctors;  proves too much:  most of an entire nation sucking down a mountain of “I will be your god”/ just give me all your money.  Fear establishes, “I cannot refuse; save me”.  Power establishes, “don’t question me”.  Pride proves “HELL, who gives a damn/ I GET A NEW CAR for this 30 minute surgery” ITS LIKE STEALING, without a gun; there’s a thrill.   “The witch doctor” has arrived: bow down and fear I will refuse you!   Adding in to this relentless crevice (the steps, out of sight and sound of the majority wherein its just the doctor and you; good or bad) is the certainty of death coming.  Therein fear consumes in some the possibility of a future, and they retreat into the past as is alzheimer disease (I CANNOT face death, “a child/ children don’t often die”); cannot recognize you, cannot deal with the present: it ruins the lie.  Or as is parkinson (I CANNOT face death; “control, I must have control; pills will save me”) disease:   I WILL retain control over everything, I will take these pills, and prove death cannot get me;  not for a long time, I am safe here, “even though everything else is falling apart/death, can’t get me”.  Even though it is not true, the demand to escape is very real, the fear extreme in both diseases of the mind (I can choose).  A lie of course, none can choose against death/ truth does not allow it. The foundation of brain effects in people are more certain to be the result of pills, than anything else.   After years of pills, none can say what normal actually is; or more correctly would be.  After years of addictive, mind-altering medicine, what immediately follows is “detox”, when possible. After filing your body with man-made chemicals, or even large quantities of any chemical, why would you not expect “contamination of the property/ environment/ soup or whatever you wish to describe as body”?  Unnecessary tears and fears are failure; life is a destiny or a decision,  within which you must participate or die; every single day.
Is there no valued medicine? Yes there is/ but that does not account for the reality of medicine that has no value or far worse; the insanity of believing anything you are told.
The element of fear pushing the young, results in their contempt for the old: “you gave me nothing, to help my life in this my time on earth”.  That results in a demand to escape the future, by whatever methods are possible.  That results in a long list of troubles that range from suicide and murder, to a pride so extreme everyone else is worthless.  Ridicule, disrespect, denial, perversions, addictions, and a host of other ailments all arise upon the simple truth:   you “the educator/ the elder” gave to me NOTHING, I can use.  Therefore I could die, or who knows what!  NOT “friendly”!

One of the worst deliberate fears is established by loneliness; it goes, “I CANNOT have want I want/ therefore someone should pay”.  The fear is, LIFE is unfair/ someone will punish me: so I need a child who cannot; someone, whom I can control entirely.  That is the beginning of pedofile/ that is the primary cause of child abuse and rape.  The murder of children and women occurs, when reality proves, “they can tell on me”.  The child commonly has to prove, “no, I won’t”/ to survive.  The general method is to mimic the abuser.   The child has already been stripped of all trust, and as a consequence will commonly remain silent, but distant throughout their years. The child will yearn for companionship, but be unable; because trust means vulnerable/ and that is the very last thing they wish to be anymore. Women find themselves unable to trust after rape as well; that can destroy the foundation needed to create a true love or family thereafter.  They don’t want to be vulnerable, so they become “less desirable”/ quit being friendly to men/ look for ways to blame all men for their lives changed/ and structure their future based upon controlling or avoiding men.  In other words, these are serious crimes. Pedofile is worse, by far; because it is a  child, innocense (the right to not know, what people do to each other)  robbed.

The return to trust, is a decision generated by the others in life who do provide the opportunity to understand; not all are the same.  Even so, this is impossible for some, particularly the child until change occurs by the introduction of a spiritual life.  Can’t trust people, therefore only GOD is left.  Which most, will refuse to do, because the blame is strong: WHY did this have to happen to me/ or more simply “GOD failed me”; how can I trust?  Confusing the actions of people who are free to make their own choices, with GOD who did set us free to make those decisions/ IS NOT fair.  Either we are free, or those who fail “should surely be smitten by lightning strike or something”.  Is that not so?  Consequently if free/ then we are at the mercy of those human decisions, and our ability to investigate & enforce law.  The elemental return to trust is the acceptance:   that love and friendship;  is of greater value than securities and loneliness.  Simple as that/ but this time, you do have greater knowledge as to how best to proceed and what to be careful of.  The child can be trapped for years, having no clue how to stop this/ the woman is commonly raped by the same one only once.  Do you see the difference?   The child will fear starvation, etc;   if they fail to please the pedofile/ do you see the difference?  The child is commonly in the presence of their attacker everyday/ a woman raped once, is not.  Do you see the difference!

Therefore issues of trust in children are far greater.  The reality of adults surrounding them, commonly completely immersed in their own lives, and purposes to truly understand.  The reality is; there are NO “easy fixes” to the cost and consequence of true abuse.  Every day is a decision to participate or not.  Everyday is a destiny to “believe in” or not.  Everyday is a reality of people honestly sharing their lives with you, and you with them;  or not.  Love is the distance between friendship and trust.  Life is the distance between its beginning and its end; your choice is not always the deciding factor/ same for all. We can each one respect life itself, and turn away from revenge/ letting the law decide.  Or you can lose your life, to the endless tragedy of letting the past decide your future; it is, a devastating loss for each one involved that could or would be friends.  As anyone can tell you;   true friends, are few and far between/ for us all.  Because few are able to trust; and compared, they have no cause at all.  Nonetheless, it is what they choose.  People judge, therefrom losing friends.  People conceive of their own “reasons why”/ which are commonly wrong; ending friendship without cause.  People believe or struggle with behaviors or other; that they do not understand; thereby ending friendships.  The competition extensive/ the aggression endless/ threats and purposes from others dictating life instead of a choice.  The list is very long, of what happens in relationships/ the consequence is a world, with few people who can honestly say, “I have a true friend”.  Someone who has trust in me, someone who does not judge, but allows me to be me/ and asks questions when in doubt so that all can be resolved.  People are pushed to decide by some, because their answers describe a future.  Pushed again or again is simply saying “if I cannot be given another chance to explain or the opportunity at all to be understood: then please leave”.  Pushed again it is kindly do not come back, to me; although honest change does apply forgiveness.  Reality finds that extremely unlikely; pride gets in the way.  Thereby we see, that trust even though earned/ can be lost.  The children badly damaged, are not so different than the rest;   because we do not respect the reality of freedom as it must be accepted.  The honesty we are all going to make mistakes, we are all going to fail at something important, we are all in need of forgiveness or understanding at some points in our lives, we are all in need of friends to make life worthwhile and happy in society.  The primary blessing of “opposite sexes” is, this is easier between opposites than the same;   different views of the same event grants less intensity; “you didn’t/ I couldn’t” is definable.
The issues of trust, thereby friendship and the elevation of life beyond self;  begins with understanding “not all your fault, in hardly anything/ at least not at first”.  To understand that blame is not absolute, begins a journey:   to adhere to one step at a time, in the direction I truly desire as valued in my life.  My freedom to dispossess the tragedy of failures, and accept the new relationship with freedom inside myself:   to be, whoever it is I choose to be.  That is my choice/ my freedom/ my life; and yours.  If you allow truth to lead.