Something more pleasant.

In the creation of happiness, there is a need to understand what happiness is.  Happiness is the ascension of critical truth, the understanding of fundamental disciplines, and the creation of love within yourself treasured by the reciprocal effect of love returned to yourself. 
Critical truth is a foundation upon which reality displaces all want, needs, and obsessions with the honesty of what can be in this life called human.  The ascension of critical truth is the relationship you build in the struggle to displace action and reaction with the honorable intent,   “Simply I love/ it is my choice; and I have made it so in me”.  The consequential understanding of fundamental disciplines with regard to directing order and balance within your own life, is then a path unto the creation of love itself.  Discipline requires us to believe that what we do today, DOES have a direct effect on what our lives can and will be tomorrow.  Order states, before you “build the house”/ first the foundation, costs, materials, and all labor must be considered.  Or more simply, the balance necessary to produce love within ourselves must be governed by the reality required to achieve that destination for ourselves.  The reciprocal effect of love shared, is a relationship based upon caring in both you AND the other life or lives that you have chosen to treasure as part of your very existence in this time.

Critical truth does not allow you to simply demand love.  Love is a gift, and it cannot be treasured unless it is earned.  Earning love, is a definition of time/ because here in time we are granted the right to choose for ourselves, the path we most dearly desire.  Whether that will be love, hate, greed, or whatever, each is a distinct choice.  Consequently if you try to build upon what cannot support love/ or if you build with reservation about love itself/ or if love finds a liar, instead of a friend;   all these will cause unhappiness, because no love will come for you. 
So then let us ask the question directly:   what is love, that it commands a distinct decision that precludes all that love is not?  Love is a truth!  Therefore anything less than love is a contamination of that love, and the result is:   either you must abandon the contamination, or be resolved to live with it as best you can.  In our humanity, there is no such thing as “true love” for we all are “at least a bit contaminated within ourselves”.  Therefore we must settle for less than perfect love, and that means simply:   we must forgive and forget/ because we too, need the same.
Therefrom the examination of love itself occupies a distinction of purpose that is unlike any other in human existence.   WE CHOOSE, DESIRE, HOPE, AND SEEK the opportunity for someone to love, that is equally happy with the love we give from ourselves. Love is a “life commodity”; which means simply that we do trade from ourselves, the love that exists in exchange for something else; preferably love, but sometimes much less.  If we give away (can’t give, UNLESS it is something then lost)  too much/ then we become empty within ourselves; and must either receive from someone else what they will give without receipt/ or wait until our own humanity repairs through forgiveness and hope.  Doesn’t mean simply forget those who steal, and harm without cause/ but it does mean be dependent upon the law, NOT revenge or jealousy. 

The foundation upon which we accept the reality of love within our own life is:   that we have been loved, for who we are!  That simple statement comes from the existence of evidence that then proves WE ARE IN FACT,    “A MIRACLE” of existence.  That our bodies, the vast majority, are so well designed and capable of making us happy, that we need not think about anything less than simply being happy within ourselves.  There is still a need to survive, but for most that need, at least in an honorable society, is not greater than for the others; therefore it is fair.  Creating an honorable society, is then a foundation to the beginning of love within ourselves; so that we can be treated with respect as an equal life, assigned and protected with justice for all. 
The question of love, then moves to the expression of love, as it is fundamental to explain from within ourselves that no harm is meant here, not for you, or any other so long as they do not attack us.  The creation of love then asks, WHY is there a difference in people, whereas some love honestly and truly/ while some distinctly hate and choose violence?  The fundamental answer is: those who love do so, because they have accepted from life itself, that “I” am happy to be alive.  While those who accept hate fundamentally answer, I am unhappy here/ and jealous of anyone who is.  So the base element in every human decision that decides the direction of life, occurs from the same elemental greeting:   “I am or I am not, happy to be alive”.   Scared to die, does not apply.

Therein we begin again to discover what it means to be happy with life?   By examining or investigating life itself.  The question that arises: alters the compositions of both mass and the vacuum of space, with energy.  That energy forces time to surrender its freedom to choose nothing, and demands that an action or reaction will take place.  This is more important than it appears;   but again leads to topics that cannot be discussed.  
The alternate questioning of life asks a more complex question:   what is the human force, that gives us freedom to discover ourselves, and each other?  Freedom says: we are what we are, because we chose that.  But discipline says: unless we do understand what we have chosen, it is impossible to access the most minimal distinctions of a decision to be made.  Here again, reality demands no farther, because there are consequences to this knowledge.  And humanity makes bad choices all the time. 
A more simple question is:    What do we like about life?  This is an emblem called want, that most hang around their necks like a trophy “winner, because I want:   but that leads to the games people play”.  Nonetheless games heavily burden life on earth in countless ways and means.  So it is open for discussion.  For those who love, the distinction of life is based upon that experience of love.  I am alive, because the treasury of what I have known in the balance of love that was given or received, built in me a reservoir of truth: this is what I truly desire.  It is that truth, that becomes “I am alive”.  Because when you share truth itself, you begin to understand that truth is life, and it is within our soul.    GOD is my truth, the experience of my life in love, more than any other.   Believe it or not.
The opposite direction is hate, whereby everything of value is discounted into the opposition of love:   covered by the jealousy, desire for revenge, and ultimately violence of those who feel cheated in their lives, because they are not happy.  And refuse to pay the price to be so: which is the permanent surrender of all forms of hate.

The middle ground, a situation in life that applies to the vast majority:   BELIEVE they can have love and hate (choosing to feel abandoned or left out or cheated)/ because they can control these feelings long enough to experience happiness at various times and some distinctive ways that are not truly equivalent to love; but nonetheless make them glad they are living in time.  It takes the threat of death away, granting less fear.   But in reality, this is fundamentally a decision governed by want, and therein never actually encounters true love or life as soul. 
Love is, the acceptance that life can be no better than this/ therefore I will surrender to it, and accept the price that must be paid to live it as a true participant in my life, in our lives.
Hate always looks for more.
The middle ground always wants, and is never satisfied for long.

So the question is again:   why can love be enough, be all that life needs to be for a few/ and yet so many cannot find anything of value to call their own experience or as a destiny worth searching for in time?   Critical truth replies:   the development of an identity is absolutely necessary to the creation of a life.  Until you find your own existence in time, it is impossible to create a life that you can be.  Or more simply, until you have searched yourself, to discover the relationship you share with life itself, the boundaries of time will not give to you a life for yourself.  Instead, you are bound to time, and time is an action or a reaction governed by energy instead of true  decision, desire, hope, or love.  It is your place in time, that defines your ability to participate beyond the limits time will impose.  Or more simply:   if you do not surrender time as the greatest participant in your life/ then you cannot expand beyond selfishness (only I matters).   To search for life itself; critically created as “US”/ it is absolutely necessary to believe in life rather than simply self.
You cannot be part of “us” until you have become a separate true identity called “I”.  You cannot be the truth of “I”, until you have separated yourself from all that you are not.  And that will include all the influences of others, time, experience, or expression that fundamentally exist without your own decision or consent.  Only then may you join the existence of what is true, as a life being shared.
Therefrom we get the possibilities that separate existence into the three categories beyond time:   what is spirit, what is soul, and what is eternity.  Each of these are environments which allow for the introduction of humanity under the conditions preset, which constitute a journey towards these destinations and then beyond.  That journey identifies the basic interest of your existence in time/ translates the fundamental barriers you have against the price that must be paid to make this journey/ and then asks:   you specifically what are you willing to pay, to open the door into spirituality, soul, or eternity?   This is a fundamental of you, expressed by the truth that you have conceived of within yourself.  If you are lying to yourself/ YOU WILL be punished, or may die if you continue to proceed into environments where only truth can survive. 

It is completely foolish, blind, and insane;   to lie to yourself/ what could you possibly gain?  Nothing but hate is the answer/ because it reveals that you are unhappy with your life;  and if pushed hard, that unhappiness WILL be abandoned/ OR you will descend farther into it, to become criminally violent and therefrom potentially without the possibility of future value.
Spirit is the essence of truth.  Soul, is a deliberate relationship with    GOD,   WHO WILL know if you are lying or insincere.  Eternity is the law that governs life in this universe, and it will NOT be disobeyed.  These things are not games, they are life or death for you.

Returning to simple happiness.  We begin the understanding of what is, or is not “the voice inside your head”.  It is not “you”/ rather it is a compilation of what you have experienced, learned, or chosen in your life.  “Talking to you” as the method most likely to be used to measure new expressions or experiences as they are confronted by past experience, and/or you conception of what that past experience meant to your life.  Doesn’t sound particularly dangerous/ but as with so many things, it can be.  The things of this natural world are largely divided by predator, prey, tragedy, and pleasant or necessary.  That means the biggest influence of your life IF you listen “to the voice inside” comes from one of these distinctions/ that you have accepted for your life.   Particularly dangerous, is the terms of a predator:   hunt/ kill/ enjoy/ hunt, plot, plan, surprise and/or  entrap again.   Once you have entered into that dimension of human time/ the next step is to measure which participant in the prey available, that you will attack.  Laws limit the full blown expression of human predators/ but more correctly it reduces them to “surprise and hiding” as is common to animal predators.   Or if you simply reduce this effect of time, to the actual measurements within the brain.  Time makes you “an animal”/ but thought in the translation and transition between love, law, and truth,  makes you a human being.

Human being means:   one created with the possibilities to become eternal.  NOT one that is born eternal! The elemental meanings granted to an infant or such, are about mercy/ therefrom NOT a possibility which we can decide.  Not our job, leave it alone.
Happiness translates the ability to understand: I can and am free to choose, who I will be, and hopefully what I can be for the sake of my own life.  Hate translates happiness by corrupting that intent or freedom/ and making you obey their will, instead of your own.   Love and life are then participants in freedom/ while hate and corruptions are then participants in slavery and the purpose or power, pride, selfishness, or fear.

Happy means:   I have found something or someone within which I BELIEVE my life will be blessed.  Within constructs an environment “of us”/ while belief asserts, “I need not know everything, I have faith this is enough for me”.  Or more simply;   I will trust, my life to this experience in love.  It does not always turn out correct, because want is a powerful enemy.  Want asserts:   I have measured and now believe, with the right controls or by paying a specific price; I will own what I want from this relationship.  I have a plan, and an expectation that must be met, or I will make you unhappy too.  As is proven time and again, most marriage is based upon measurements and a plan.  As to the homosexual, let them gain their legal rights to demand payment for breach of contract/ it is THEIR life.  Simply refuse to allow it called by the same name as for people without this horrible disease of the mind.  Created by fear/ ruled by fantasy/ destroyed by the lies that cannot be sustained beyond time.  But it is their choice, and they are literally free to do so.  PREFERABLY somewhere else, IF they insist on being “out of the closet”.  If inside where they belong/ then a part of society, as is realistic for any and all measures of freedoms, that are not really honest with life or society.
Although disgusting, it is not a disease that translates into nearly as much damage to society in general as does greed, or many of the other tragedies associated with men.
Life is a developmental cascade from the ingredients of order, discipline, balance, and truth/ when you veer from these realities, life itself begins to fail in you.  The farther away you choose to be, the more critically devoid of the necessary desires to return as an equal participant in being alive, you do become. Life is a distinction allowed by law/ eternal laws CANNOT be disobeyed.  You die, if you try.  It is a choice.  Time is a measure rather than a law/ the body enforces death, by action and reaction in time.  Therefore it is the body conspiring with law called time, that ends human existence.  Or it is human existence that chooses to end itself or another, because freedom grants to us an environment we can choose for ourselves.  However, that too can end, if we surpass the ability of nature and environment to provide for our needs.  It’s a choice!