We begin with the simple truth: that it is the law, that protects each one/ while men do protect women, if they are willing, and not defeated.  It is the purpose of this writing to begin the journey into what is more preferable, when truth aligns the options of what can be done, with what could be done, for the purpose of what will then be done.  The simple products of knowledge are: the law protects, because it is all of us/ saying to a tiny few human beings/ that you shall NOT trespass beyond this barrier.  It is then the law, that judges/ not people.  It is then the people who can enforce this law, by proving to both police and the judiciary; they must obey the law too.  This elevates the law, governing ourselves; by transferring all power to that law, rather than to, any other human being.  Mercy is justified, in some cases; that is what a judge exists for/ apart from clarity with regard to law.  But mercy is not power, it is the call for justice, even if, nothing can truly be done to replace what was lost.

We look as well to the time honored truth, that women “stick together” for a reason/ there is protection in numbers; if anarchy does not rule.  Consequently the first rule of protection is: “keep the government in place/ BUT FIX THE LAW”; and remove any leader or employee who refuses to obey that law.  The law has power, it is all of us; proving peace and harmony will rule.  But it is also true, that women who stick together where government works, and elsewhere; are more likely not to be hurt, than those who find themselves alone.  Which clearly establishes the need or reality, wherever trouble or the potential for trouble lurks; of a time and place for women together.  In one area, clearly fortified against attack.  Or more simply, to live in close knit groups identifies both “the right of rescue”/ and the right of protection, in terms of men.  Women prepared, can work a weapon successfully.  But they cannot be “everywhere”/ nor can the police.  Which means the closer you stay together, the more deliberate every action in defense of each other becomes.  Some will say, “we don’t need this type of defense: WE LIKE MEN”.  But that is not the issue is it.  Rather it is not every man that women must protect against/ it is a few men; that cause most grief.  The purpose is then NOT to isolate men and women/ but to give the advantage to women, instead of men.
The critical truth of our future is simple: many hardships are coming. We can still mediate many of them, but every day matters, and little is being done as of yet.  Not because I say so/ because this world, our nature, has been so badly damaged, so intensely attacked: that nothing can stop some consequences; even if we begin immediately to rebuild our world, and protect nature.  That means, everyone is going to be confronted with hard choices.  That often means: “men who cannot win among men/ will choose to disgrace and degrade women, to build themselves up as stronger, than they are”.  Liars, are a common problem throughout life.  Both men and women.  But in terms of sexuality, disrespect from either side, makes women targets far more so, than men.   The need to increase protection for women, will grow for a time. This is a choice you can make.  Simply choose “dense living; women only”/ in an area you can defend. Operate your businesses out of this area as well; it gives you control.  If all the women come/ you can depend entirely on: the men will follow.  It’s a law of nature.  Do, what you can do.

The critical relationship of our reality as human beings, to being attacked by any predator; is having the necessary knowledge, and or weapon to defend ourselves from that predator.  If you simply surrender, you lose; and if not dead/ they come back.  Therefore it is necessary to understand what can be done/ and what cannot be done/ and why.  The first rule is: every predator looks for an opportunity to attack its victim: that will afford the least retaliation.  Or more simply, when you are completely unaware; that is the time a predator will attack/ if it can.  So then the possibilities of digging in your purse, or even reaching for a gun in your pocket are more likely to do you harm than good/ because while you are doing this, the battle is already being fought, and won.  A gun in your pocket or purse is more likely to fall into the predators hands, than yours.  What you have available, must be considered to be: a weapon or a tool, that you can use immediately.  That will only, ever be; something already in your hand, or immediately available to your hand, foot, or other movable part that can make a difference.  You can’t run in spiked heel shoes/ but you can do a great deal of damage by shoving that spike into an assailants foot; practice, so you know how.   You can hit a man in the “adam’s apple” that protrusion in his neck/ it will cause him not to breathe for several seconds or minutes; and the battle stops, unless you continue it/ he cannot: doesn’t need to be hard/ but don’t play.  You can kick a man in the balls/ that will cause him considerable pain, if those are real: but if you miss, you can be in more trouble: so be determined. If you are being pushed along, you can cause him to trip (learn the most effective ways to do that); particularly if there are stairs to send him down/ or a car coming to push him into it.   There are teeth to establish a momentary release/ but he will recover quickly, and come after you again; most likely.  Many men cannot take a quick blow into the stomach.  Every predator has made a decision to use a weapon against you or not/ prior to attack.  Which means, for the most part, he does or does not, intend to kill/ that doesn’t have much to do with you or what you do: it is his predator inside.

Apart from these realities of preparation/ next, the question comes down to weapons; or more simply what do you have available?  The most obvious “accessory” women carry is jewelry/ if that were a weapon, then it would be accessible, because it is worn to be seen; and can then be accessed in a hurry, without looking.  “Bite him” will give you that moment to prepare.  What then can be incorporated into jewelry, is again some type of chemical that not only offends (to drive away)/ but tags and identifies (this one is guilty).  Thereby, when you pull this jewelry apart, that is accomplished in one simple movement. Some initial designs for this are on www.justtalking.info inventions (on the left).  The critical question is:   what kind of smell?  It can be something as pleasant as baking bread/ or something as awful as a skunk (people can smell a skunk for more than a mile), or worse.  Because the primary need demands:   this is an alarm, to tell the rest/ I am in trouble, call and come for assistance.  Anything recognized, like a fire alarm;   “I know what that means”/ can deliver that message.  But unless it is something that drives an attacker away, it may not be enough to save you from an attack.  Someone vomiting for instance, whether you or them; does not suggest sex/ it says, “go away”.  Chemicals can have individual tags, to link predator and victim together.  Use it in court! To stop an attack, to defend and protect yourself from harm: IS BETTER, “than killing him”.  Learn that, let the law help you/ by helping the law identify him; and sounding an alarm, even if it is by smell; so long as it is effective/ WHY do you complain?

Secondary to defense, is the need to be “offensive”; or more specifically, there is no need for anyone to know where you work, or live, or how you get to work, or what you do for fun/ etc.  Until there is a clear desire to know and understand one another, there is no need to exchange personal information. Just keep the conversation general, or specific to things that are not simply personal.  In today’s world, it is always best to take a picture and send it to a friend; “just met, today, right now;_________”and so on.  If someone objects, leave.  Don’t be “anything less than polite/ because that allows someone else to believe that you respect him, and that is important, NOT to make some feel a need to be angry with you.  But be firm; as necessary.  Remember to use the law, an assault by definition is the belief that you are threatened with bodily harm, by someone who intends or may intend to carry that out.  Battery is actually harming someone, it need not be “a lot”. But understand this, although you can harm someone else in this way and obtain power.  It is not enough to remove this person from your life, and the day will come, when reality proves it wasn’t a good idea/ UNLESS it was honestly necessary.  In the world of men, it is entirely possible to beat someone up/ only to find them hiding as a predator with a club or gun next time you see them.  Which is why men do kill each other, its an attempt to remove that threat forever.  But it rarely works, because they know someone, or have family, or gangs, etc.  More simply treat everyone with respect, so that no cause exists to “bother you”.  Or as an alternate, don’t make them look bad in a fight, so that some respect exists there;   limiting the need to do this again, for most. Some will always be a fool/ avoid them, until you can avoid them no more.

Separated from all the issues that are distinctly predator and prey/ comes the consequence and failures that turn sexual desire into rape.  Women do tempt/ women do demand “mixed signals”, you have to make the right choice, of men.  Women do commonly discard men (never again for you), if they do not choose sex when they are suppose to.  Which means to most men: “I don’t want to make that mistake again”.  But the consequence of that is a more aggressive behavior.  The ability to tell what is right, in a woman’s eyes/ from what is wrong in a woman’s eyes; LARGELY depends entirely upon her;  And women like it that way. But the problem is, when the woman is not certain/ then neither can the man be certain of what to do.  That leads to trouble.  Romance is as simple as: “with respect, truth, and trust” I will accept and try to please you/ because you do the same for me. I will think of you often, because the value you bring to my life is more than I can understand!  Therefore we know, that issues involving sexuality which are not conceived by certainty are NOT about romance/ but sex.  We know, that a man or woman who does not proceed with respect for you, without question/ is NOT in love.  We know, that men lie, tempt, flatter, use, abuse, buy, work, listen at times, and investigate how long do I have to wait,  all for sex:   because they want to use your body, or claim you as a trophy (got her).  NOT ALL men, but many.  We know, that many men are commonly discarded by women; just like women are discarded by men. “Many are the most worthy and loving available”/ but set aside anyway.  We know that women use, abuse, tempt, buy with sex, work for, and listen too, and investigate men for how long do I have to wait: because they have shopped, and are considering “making a purchase”.  Rather than love, “I have wants or sex/ want means more to me”.

Thereby we know, that not every poor or bad decision on either side deserves critical condemnation.  Not every act of sex deserves community action.  One of the most fundamental changes in male to female sexuality is:   man and woman decide together, to have sex/ thereby we know, both chose, no one is owed! So long as that is true/ no rape exists, even if woman changes her mind.  A different “category” however can be used, if the cause is just. Women commonly believe they are owed/ it is not so.  But men commonly believe, “all done, all free, nothing required for me”/ which is also not true.  Men owe the honesty of true respect, the critical touch of a gentle heart, the honor of being the one she shared with, because pregnancy is not a simple matter, and women do gamble in ways men do not; to be with you.  That risk, entitles them to understanding and someone who actually cares. If not/ then you are not a man, but a boy playing with his toy.  Unless you are buying a prostitute “from the woman herself/ NO man involved”; I leave that up to you both to decide: BEFORE the act. 

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: DON’T try to buy me.  It won’t work.  Very few can be bought, and these are often not “what you had in mind”.  If you are a woman with children, NEEDING HELP, PLEASE!  I ask you directly: if I was a man with children, needing help please/ IF I GIVE YOU SEX, is that enough to commit to the next fifty years, “your lifetime” of hard work/ share everything/ pay my bills/ take a chance you won’t divorce and try to steal everything from me?  Is it?  Is sex enough, to buy all that?  NO, it is not; this won’t work/ sex is not enough.  Therefore do not try to buy me/ and I won’t try to buy you either:   let us be fair.  Fair means: that I understand who you are/ I understand what you need/ I can and will choose to provide “this much; if that is not enough, please look elsewhere”.  And now you must understand the same from me, and choose for yourself.  If we do/ then love or not, a contract is born.  “Good enough”.  But do remember, sex without love is just a toy; providing chemical responses, therefore it is addictive/ so don’t share too much, unless you are ready to commit.  Because toys can be discarded for new toys/ and addictions wear off, with some chemicals. After the trophy is polished, and placed on “the mantel” so to speak/ many forget.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: I am not your “excuse to spend money”.  Rather I am interested in finding a friend worth having/ not someone who has a “wall for trophies”. Either as sex or as trophies of any other kind.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say:

people conceive of hopes and happiness, a life together at very different rates and times.  In other words, even if I love you, or you love me: UNTIL we share these feelings together.  There is no union to share.  No one buys love, love is entirely a gift in every sense of the word, none “can make you fall in love”/ it is your choice.  But some fall into love very easily, and some are far too cautious and fail to love, for a wide variety of reasons. Few and far between, are those who can find someone and instantly feel like we both belong together forever.  It is very rare.  The reason is: caution overrides the reality of love/ because truth has provided cause and reason to determine if this is for real or not.  Sometimes, “these burn hot/ and then cold”.  It is a romance, but it is not a union in love; instead it is recognized value to me/ and the potential for love.  Love requires respect, the dignity created by friendships proven in truth, the acceptance of life and value, and the gain of trust to believe “our lives are shared, because it is true, we care honestly, and with honor”.  Real marriage does not come before these things are accomplished, regardless of sex.  I do, recommend before you commit to a lifetime, that you investigate sex as well.  No surprises, is being honest with life.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: men do respond to “the woman in distress”.  Not because she is more sexy, or needs exist/ but because they are required to make a decision “right now”.  Because the situation will not wait, and being needed respects the reality “I do have value, to you”.  Value is a description that extends a foundation in life, that we can share.  Therefore if I know, that I have value to you/ and you respect that: then I also know, because some truth is obvious, what this part of our future shall be. 
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: hope, tenderness, kindness, and a willingness to be both brave and gentle, all say to a woman: “perhaps, I can be safe here”.  Liars and thieves learn this early/ using it, to swindle and deceive for sex.  But real men, do this out of respect.  They choose to be, someone NOT selling a product “themselves”.  And accept, that participation between man and woman must include a relationship where security is not an issue, and particularly the woman feels secure with her own decisions, and unafraid to share them with you.  Freedom is a powerful thing, the blessing of never being lied to, threatened, or confused about what our lives mean together: gives both, an opportunity in passions that are real.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: sexy is, “clearly a woman”/ to a man; AND someone who can honestly fit into my world.  Otherwise, it is all about the trophy.  Can’t say, what it is to a woman/ just don’t know.  Regardless, that is not enough.  A woman has to fit, in “my world”/ or it will not work.  That does change over time; one that I considered for a short time, suggested she was “tough, able to stand on her own in even the roughest conditions”/ but it was not true.  And my own situation, because of this work, did demand that kind of woman/ at the time.  Too many enemies!  But no more, today everything is changed.  Not even a clue. I have no idea how any woman actually fits in my own future today.  I don’t know how I fit in my future today; strange.  So, the lesson is:   just because someone is not able to commit at this time, does not mean the future cannot participate with him or her.  Time is required/ if you cannot wait, please continue on.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: the reality of man and woman “dating, with benefits” is/ that both become comfortable with the relationship.  It is, whatever it is/ and while that is enough, life simply goes on as it is.  However the truth remains: that time is not forever, and every day that goes by, when you are not with the one that “touches my soul” for either man or woman.  Something will be lost.  Therefore understand, but more importantly choose what you need the future to be/ before one day you wake up, and suddenly too old for many things.  That does not mean these relationships have no value/ they do, for both or you would not do them.  Instead however, this is about “the most that love can be”/ and you may never find that one, you truly makes you feel alive.  But if you don’t search, you lose.  If you do search/ then you can lose what has less, but real value as well.  It’s a choice/ that will affect you both.  Hard to do.  But make no mistake, the same is true for the other in this relationship; be kind, as best you can. Its hard, lives are at stake/ not a game.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: the question of actually deciding to have sex or not.  Is as simple as understanding why?  Why do you want it?  The answer is chemicals and touch.  Why do you desire this person to build a relationship based upon love shared, because we both care?  The answer is: I know, this person can set me free.  There is a big difference between want and desire.  Or more correctly selfishness and hope.  The answer to what is right for you/ can only be discovered and decided by you/ NOT someone else.  If the other lies, and what you believe is love fails: freedom changes to imprisonment, because now “it is very hard to stop”/ unless you simply break up completely.  With chemicals this is an addiction that will fail.  But with love, there is a tragedy in tears, that cannot simply be brushed aside/ time is required to heal. People become cautious, and refuse to love.  So be careful what you do, lives are at stake/ futures change.  But as for me, wisdom is its own reward, and life goes on.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: people want rules in sexuality, because that gives them a roadmap to sex/ it makes dating simple and easy.  Do this/ do that/ don’t do that; and then your reward is sex.  The critical truth is, “somewhat, that is true”.  But this does not lend itself to love.  It is simply sex, nothing more or less.  Love is discovered, by a path that leads to friendship, “but never follows want”.  Or more simply, ask for the best that is in you for this person; to show them life with you/ but do not assume it is enough. Believe it is enough/ it is, but you may still simply “not fit” each other. Because everyone requires something from their lives, and you must be able to fit within that truth.  Can’t, know that without time; the ability to be honest friends, and the respect required to prove you do care, “for me too”.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: in terms of being young, the simple truth is/ rarely are you not better off to wait for love.  To believe in romance, and accept truth always requires respect.  There is no love or romance or anything good, without respect.  Plain, simple, and without question.  Respect extends to all people, to all creatures and plants, or more simply where respect exists, it exists for all.  If not, then this is a game for show, a reality not yet cemented into place, in ways that can be trusted.  Every boy or young man “has plans” to do something with his life/ that rarely includes marriage and children and settling down immediately after high school or other.  If he does/ there has been considerable trouble, for which you are a solution.  Some last forever/ some do not, male or female. Boys don’t remember the things girls expect/ they don’t care about details.  Men or boys don’t care about where you might have sex/ don’t think about why you have sex with them/ don’t want sex all the time, or even nudity all the time.  If you get past boy/ then you will understand, either they want you, “with sex thrown in”/ or they don’t, but will use you for sex anyway, its called lust: want your body, don’t care about you.  Girls can buy a date with sex/ but you cannot find a boyfriend with sex.  Either he desires to spend time “with you” or he does not.  If you have to use sex, to tempt him to spend time/ its not about you, “its your body alone” that interests him. Lust plain and simple.  Always remember, that men are different from women/ some need time to think about the consequences before they begin a journey that could change someone’s life, including their own.  That is not a bad thing.  But it does mean, the most passionate people, do not jump in without understanding what they are doing and why.  Passion requires a commitment/ a commitment requires “believing this is the right thing for me to do, for us to be”.  That takes thought, acceptance of reality, and a purpose that is more than “just one night”.  Passion is a decision, built upon acceptance/ but cherished only when the other person feels the same way.  You cannot make their decision.  You cannot control the question or when it will occur/ you can ask, but only life can answer.  The mind does not know, it takes a heart.  Heart means: if this answer is to change everything I expect, or ask from life/ I must be sure.  That can take days, or weeks to answer with truth.  Be patient, it is worth the wait/ for truth.  Without respect you have no relationship of value.  Without truth, the honesty of every moment/ there are lies, stealing from your heart the place where you both “live and breathe together”. When truth is gone, it is impossible to share. Without love, there is no desire; no time when caring rules your heart, and nothing matters but love, between me and you.  Which means that sex, is no longer the union of lives/ merely the exchange of chemicals; like it or not, is a question too. 

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: through the hard times, help each other/ don’t judge each other, because “you didn’t do, or be, as I expected this, or you to be”. Change is hard, accepting new ways/ journeys/ and decisions are hard. Shared backgrounds, beliefs, and common ground makes it easier. Help each other, because love is a union of two people sharing the journey of life together/ sharing the burdens of surviving that life together/ sharing the decision together “some for you/ some for me/ some for us/ some for life.  Not because you have to, as in a sacrifice/ but   because love is worth the price, and caring demands it.  If you are patient, there will be rewards, where love is alive.  Respect the work, and the worker/ remember to help, not simply complain.  If two do the work/ then both will be “more energetic together”; because time and sharing makes it possible, & has allowed it to be true.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for both sides to say: the reality of innocense, is simply the failure to understand/ just how much we can and will influence the life of someone else, particularly with sex.  A lifetime, can be influenced with a single act.  But in the same way, the influence of another life can be changed with sex.  We can change another for good or bad with sex.  Life can be better with sex, but only through honorable love, with honest intentions and hopes.  If you are old enough to accept, the critical and real complications/ if this does not end as you expect.  Sex is not a small thing/ sexual relationships which experience either good or bad, become addictive; and very hard to stop, even if it is not you, that is addicted. Not a game, a reality with consequences.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for boys to say: please understand, that I need time and space to realize who I intend to become/ to test and ascertain the boundaries within which I can search/ find the work & people who mean enough to me, for a lifetime.  That does not mean, I don’t “love you”/ it just means, I can’t be ready for you yet; because I am not yet me, as I intend to be.  Even so, the presence of female, is extremely hard to ignore/ and love blossoms even when you don’t expect it.  But do remember this:   if I or you, are pulled inside a relationship prior to being ready for that commitment/ then doubts will linger, because one or both, did not have the opportunity “to test the waters”, and make certain “yes, this one/ forever”.  Everyone comes to these decisions in their own way and time, with their own purpose, hopes, and needs.  Sexy means: “clearly girl/ female”; how can anyone doubt.  Although disciplined and pretty gather more, the real draw is “NOT male”.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic for men to say:   as a young man, I need to work hard and find my place in this world/ as woman you expect that, and I must.  Kindly don’t judge me, it is unkind for people to say what they believe, rather than listen to who I am.  There will be days, I am tired/ days I am grumpy/ days I need to be “alone”/ and days when your company is all I wish for my life to be.  Please don’t change me/ neither of us will like or accept the result; and that means, “separation as is necessary; to redefine who I am/ to remove what you chose, that I cannot be” will be required/ so that I or you can change back, as best we can.  Be loving and fair/ be honest and kind: life will grow in harmony and blessing; if the world or want, does not beat us apart.  Having children is OUR DECISION, not just yours.  Being a parent is our decision; but relegated to you/ if I must fight with this world, to keep us alive. Everything you want, removes my freedom to choose.  Every child, needs time/ needs energy/ needs patience and hope: we all have to share/ even if it seems unfair.  The elemental truth of sex is: that sex cannot hold us together/ cannot make us happy with each other/ cannot fix a lack of respect or desire.  Only love, respect, and truth; the opportunity to be free enough, to know happiness can do that.  The critical reality of sex in men is: that “how much sperm you have”/ really makes a difference in desire.  Every time the penis ejaculates, the sperm count goes down, and with it desire, after no more than three times.  Its just what the body does/ takes a week or so to put it all back.  So no matter what men say, there is a limit to their physical desire, even if mentally they wish for more.  More is entirely possible, but it comes with less desire and energy, for you.  Sexy is a body that shows discipline and the truth of a commitment to health.  Sexy, is a woman who knows “she likes men”/ but does not push hard.  Sexy, is acceptance, and proof, you can fit into my world.  Sexy, is “clearly Woman”/ who can doubt. Sexy is help me find time and energy to be free, for myself/ rather than chained, because of frivolous money spent that now I must earn again.

As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic I believe, for girls to say:  treat me with kindness, honesty, and generosity/ because I am worth it.  Believe in me, show me that I am “beautiful in your eyes”/ make me know, that life and body are my friend, because you are compassionate, attentive, and my true friend.  There will be tests, so that I get to know you on the inside; be faithful and I will be impressed.  Be disciplined/ so that I can be free.  Be patient, because life is a journey, and I am only beginning.  Be respectful of my body, and never cause me to fear.  Accept my life, my hopes, and my happiness as your friend/ so that I may enter into your life, fully knowing this shall NOT sacrifice mine. Be what you would have me to be:   someone clearly working, dressing, and living for the sake of my heart.
As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic I believe, for young women to expect: pay attention to me, pay attention to the grace and truth of who I am inside.  Believe in me, and ask to understand, if invited/ so that we can become friends.  Never make me afraid, not for any reason.  Never leave me alone to fight a battle that I cannot win.  Never assume you know me/ because I am who I choose to be; NOT who you believe me to be.  Accept and defend my right to be free, learning the blessing of woman is to be “everything a man wants her to be”. Can’t do this without freedom in me, my right/ never yours.  Share with me sex/ never “take it”.  Don’t use or abuse.  Share with me a kiss; be polite and friendly/ NOT overbearing and impatient.  Learn from me, the path to our happiness, IS NOT “the same thing, each and every time”.  Believe in my strength/ teach my weakness, if I ask. Belong to me, as I belong to you/ so that life can reveal our souls.

  As to the potential “regulations, prior to sexual conduct”/ between men and women, it is realistic I believe, for “middle age, either as men or women; it is fair to say:   we both know, there is risk in starting a new relationship, a challenge to being within a relationship less cherished than before.  The reality of death lurks/ the issues of what time can continue to create for us, or in us are real.  The chance to be truly happy, extends from freedom/ but within that freedom, is an understanding, “I or we” are more vulnerable; because fear is discarded/ and that means others will be watching.  Nothing interests hate more, than people in love: they have everything hate does not/ and few don’t wish to take that away; some even invite it, by creating traps to lure love and freedom in.  Time teaches: love is a gift/ but it expects a return.  True love teaches, the best I can be shares simply because caring is the best we can be.  The value of another life, in older age: is the truth, that I am here to help you; and honesty means “you can trust that”/ because I prove it is so.  But this is a world, descending.  The reality of want destroying.  The decisions in pride confronting, and taking everything valued for selfishness. “I want/ I want/ I want: is an endless battle, with other people; either them or you”.  I need, I need, I need is a demand to take whatever you sacrificed for in your life; for themselves/ leaving you without.  The issue of marriage is divorce/ is this going to be a trap, a burglary, or tears?  The reality of love, a question distinctly asked over time.  Time, is life; are you willingly to spend that for me? Or, are you willing only to take what you can get, and then leave searching for something or someone else.  Love is a gift, but it is not without cost/ the one who gives it, must pay the price. If the question in your heart is, “I want/ I want/ I want”?  Then the reality of your life is not love, but a purpose found only in greed.  If the question of your heart is, “I am proud/ you, or your things, etc are my trophy”?  Then the reality of your life is not love, but a desire to use my life to prove to others, “they are losers, next to you”.  Which means, I must be a loser too/ because realistically only one winner exists. Teams are about others.  Life, marriage, and personal relationships are about you and me/ & you or me; they are not about us, if it takes a trophy to believe we can be happy.  When every thought is about “I”/ every possibility cannot be “us”; or more simply, if there is no room for us within the expressed thoughts of your own heart; “we” do not exist.  Its just a game or story/ a fantasy or delusion.

Pleasure is the existence of “a life without cost, to me”.  Happiness is, the acceptance of freedom, by an understanding “love gives us life”; the value of each a miracle inside of me. Love is the essence of a truth dedicated to the value only life can give/ the fundamental foundation of sharing that gift, caring for the sake of life, and understanding the value of me, the value of you; gives us even more when we share this as us.  Discipline shapes our bodies, our society, and our world; without it, all change.  Truth assigns to us our discipline/ but only if we belong to the participation of a life designed by respect.  What is truly precious, therefore sacred to us/ is not simply cast aside, sold, disgraced, or disrespected.  Rather what is “a treasure” held in high esteem, is protected and cherished and honored with restraint, or freedom, or hope and happiness as life allows.