The world of humanity WANTS: To be happy! Simple as that, until that want also demands: EVERYTHING, including being a winner over everyone/ and can’t stand to share; because that “asserts, we are equal”. The consequence being, a severely burdened humanity; challenging each other with competition/ sacrificing family and friend for possessions/ destroying each other to prove “you are the loser here”/ and preparing to die, as a planet: because you are so afraid of the future.
The functional reality, or fundamental lesson is then: WANT is an enemy! Pride is a traitor! And the future belongs only to the brave, who were willing to work for life first, instead of themselves. You cannot be a “winner” until you make someone else a loser. Which means the future is so bleak, because you have made life a game.
Men and women; even children now, escape into lust and sex, perversion and failure of all kinds; because their lives and their hearts are empty/ or more distinctly, the need they do feel cannot be healed with the life they live. The primary cause: is fear. Older people fall into drugs and healthcare, cocooning themselves into denial of the truth, that we are going to die, you too. Most of the rest either live for work as the evidence of value in me/ or welfare in its various roles, proving “I was too smart” to work for a living and share the burdens of life.
The religious offer, “be like me”/ don’t have to think anymore; “We just believe whatever we want”. The university religion: “believe in us/ we KNOW”, is a fantasy and delusion beyond belief.
That leaves us all, with the simple truth: WITHOUT CHANGE, the future WILL be everything prophecies predict. Absolutely NO happiness there!
So then we again ask: WHAT DOES CHANGE MEAN?
The answer replies again: that life itself should be about happiness rather than competition. Life itself should be about family and friend instead of sacrifice and burdens unfair. Life itself is not a game/ not a toy/ not sustained by delusion or fantasy or belief. Rather life is: the experience shared, the relationship expressed, and the love grown through respect and the response called trust. DO YOU SEE THE DIFFERENCE? With democracy and limited capitalism, with world law and policing (we, the world: take the leaders to trial; therefore no more war, and no more weapons of mass destruction) THIS IS a true possibility for our future.
We must rebuild for a future to exist; or we shall die, as is the current truth of our reality, BY THE EVIDENCE PROVEN TO EXIST. Not really a choice, beyond life or death! Take your pick. It’s a choice!
Happiness cannot truly be measured, because happiness is not a possession, it is a state of heart. Therefrom happiness is not defined by the essence of a touch, or an embrace, or a sexual act, or a person. Rather happiness is the purpose expressed, in the elemental truth that is your life experienced with mine. The heart of life/ like the heart of a body; works within the rhythms of our need. Every life has moments in time, where even simple things are life building/ or life ending; because we find and cherish the trust granted by another human being to our own existence as valued and treasured for who we are. It is life challenged, by the truth of how pitiful you are: when all that you have to contribute to another honest miracle of creation is, “how much I hate/ ridicule/ or attempt to curse you.” The destiny of time is a heart worth experiencing as the life inside. The fate of a life lost, is the expression of how you measured us all.
The essence of happiness is trust, because in trust we release the potential of who we are to become, “a life called ME”. Because your gift released me to be myself; that is true happiness, the moments of being alive wherein I am not shackled by the tragedy of other influences. The time created, wherein life is “me”; shared with you, because that is the value of living; a love that is real. Even so, the essence of all happiness is a trust created within yourself, to be who you have decided to be within the environment that is your own identity. That means, fundamental to every second of true happiness is the gift, that you give unto yourself, to be free “in me”. What we share is happiness/ what we give is an environment of trust/ what we receive is, the moments granted to be truly free. Each of these things are personal to you/ which in turn means: our own happiness, is in our hands/ it is our decision to make, by the desire created which lets us be, The life we have chosen to be! The heart of life responds gently, with the truth: I understand, that you are equal to me/ and I to you. Even if you have failed.
BUT THE LAW shall decide between hate and love. THE LAW SHALL REMOVE hate, so that love can grow and blossom as trust and truth will allow. Anything else, is a disgrace, disease, or disrespect: to the life we can live; as truth through love.
Although happiness cannot be truly measured, it does exist as different levels of truth. Because truth cannot be measured, it either exists or it does not. The foundation of truth is however that there are variations in what is true, that are more important than other truths; such as “I had a donut today/ versus, someone else who says, I starved all week, but ate today”. One is more serious, therefore more important than the other/ but both truths are about food.
Those who know the starvation of “unhappiness: believing my life is lost”/ are far more affected when value comes into their lives. These then understand happiness as the gift that keeps my heart from breaking/ while the first “donut (no offense meant to donuts, or the people who eat them, it is a metaphor.) eater”, has never lacked someone to participate in their life, so they understand far less about the value of truth or friendship. But do be aware, con artists and other liars know this too.
So then, now that you understand one of the differences between basic concepts or levels in value between lives. We move on, to the elements of trust. Without trust, there can be no value between each other/ because without trust, there is suspicion and the denial that we can be friends. Consequently trust is the first and primary understanding that we are more than acquaintances, we are friends. Within the element of friendship is the desire and design of moments that will determine the “length and breath (environment)” of what our friendship can or is destined to be. Environments are built upon the structural relationship of its components, but held together by the bonds we create together as one existence working for the same distinct purpose or desire. Or more simply: we build our friendship by distinguishing ourselves within a purpose or desire that establishes a destiny to which we shall journey as one. The structure of such a relationship is developed by the truth of what we share; the creation given “the life of our hope” to care between us “as parents” of both time and body; our decision as love. That is not “a baby” in the physical sense although these can and do participate. Rather this “life of our hope together”, meets inside the soul if we are joined to be as one/ and the environment of our home together, as a spiritual reality is born.
Sexuality in the home of our souls united, IS the peak of our creation together, when love bonds us as one. It is where happiness lives for life/ rather than where life lives for happiness. The difference is: “like an unending stream”, we are no longer dependent upon time to feel alive. There is an alternate experience, even greater: “Where we meet GOD”. But that is not “time”/ it is life expanded beyond anything you can imagine.