What do we owe each other? A fair and legitimate question, upon which laws are created and enforced/ therefore a fundamental to the creation of a peaceful and harmonious society.
The simple answer is respect, or a discussion of what is wrong/ when respect is not possible.  The purpose of respect is, to create a path between us, within which we can generate the opportunity of friendship, hope, life with passion, and the possibilities of love.  The elemental need of human existence is the passage between loneliness and love. Anything less, is an avoidance of reality.
The question to be relied upon is then: WHAT constitutes a path upon which we can be no less than friends?
The answer relies upon three basic themes:   truth, so that trust may dominate our experiences together.  Order, discipline, responsibility, and duty so that laws may exist only to refine a dispute/ rather than control a life.  And commitment to the basic frameworks that allow our survival, and give us hope, peace, and harmony; because we can. 
The elemental requirement of truth is very simple:   DON’T LIE.  Although this is not a blanket statement developing an absolute under every sense or situation. The foundation of respect and truth is DON’T LIE OR MAKE UP STORIES about anything important; and that includes people.  This allows us all, to be equal/ without the expression of doubt or fear.

 The functional requirement of keeping order, accepting discipline, honoring responsibility, and doing your duty is the simple description:   DON’T do anything to someone else/ that you would not have them do to you; even less than. Because they have a right to their autonomy.  They have a right to their freedoms.  You have a right and a responsibility to yours.  Its called justice, the acceptance of freedom/ and the consequences of yourself by the decisions that you make.  Not what I do to, or choose for you: BUT THE HONESTY, this is your choice.  And the reality you did choose.
The critical relationship of life and death in this human existence, is not a game/ not a toy/ not for others to decide (unless the law convicts you)/ and is not a decision that allows you to play god, or risk any other life.  This commitment to sanity and fair play fundamentally assembles life for the purpose of an expression or experience that is simply true for you.  This understanding of value and a purpose beyond yourself alone, that gives the others an opportunity to be themselves, functions as the basis of society among friends.  The foundation upon which we build with law/ not fear.

The function of society is to create a better probability that not only will we survive as a group/ we will have the opportunity of greater freedoms, and more possibilities that give happiness its soul.  The elemental union of life, and body, and time is the creation of soul, when happiness (the ability to see hope, and love, and a future entrusted to faith) becomes one with us.  Hope is the extension of thought, within the destinies of a possibility beyond ourselves.  Love is the acceptance of another life beyond our own, where life loses its awareness of loneliness, and enters within the romance and passions of two lives joined as one.  Faith, is a door beyond which every relationship is changed, every discipline is altered to achieve the potential that is “life alive”: the creation of your own truth, in the trust of    GOD our CREATOR. 
We achieve happiness when our heart rejoices; “time has become, the ascension of hope”.  Heart means: I have become aware, of the pulsating truth; what I do does matter/ what I say can help or hurt/ what I believe will make a difference/ and who I love changes with the purpose and desire of why.  We love whosoever we please, it is your decision/ and none, not even GOD can make this for you.  Love is your personal gift, it cannot be taken; it is a gift/ but it can be stolen, by those who hate, or those who fail to understand life is not a game. It is absolutely wrong, to steal love.  But it is fundamentally true, we must all learn how best to give and receive love for the sake of life.  Not everything about love is a purity, instead throughout humanity, love is a gift that cannot be given or received without consequences.  That means, even among the “best”/ there will be heartaches, unless truth is allowed to decide; unless helping is more merciful than not. Give your “best love” to    GOD first!  Because that means, the foundation of your love cannot be touched.  Anything less, can be devastating for you.

We turn then, to relationships between man and woman, and ask:   what is the truth, what do we owe for love, for sex, for the birth of a child, for the reality of loneliness, for the expressions of heartache, or the consequences of rejection? 

The answer is: love is an open gift, it is NOT subject to repayment, love is literally a free gift to you or me, and it is not tied to “a bill”. That means literally, whether married or not/ we retain ownership of our lives, personally.  Love is an independent choice/ even if, reality would prove “you should be owed”.  Therefore nothing is owed for love, but life discovered within the reality of truth, understands love is a blessing that should be returned.  It is a kindness that lives in your heart, “an honor” conceived by acceptance, but born in truth by the discovery “I am not alone”.  This is no small thing. 

In the elemental rights and relationship of sex, between man and woman (you must grow up, to identify trust, grace, and the ability to believe this is my soul mate).  It is not for the young. Rather youth is the experimental essence of self/ while being “grown up”, is the assertion:  I do, understand; because reality has taught me.  Sexual trust explains: my life, my soul, my body, and the expressions of my mind are all entangled in the truth of who we can be together.  Sexual grace expresses love through the experience of need, helping that person of the opposite sex through a crisis of hope, is when it is the only way to let them know, “I do love you/ you are loved”.  But grace is fraught with needs, and it is important that you understand; not everyone can be helped, simply because not everyone will gain more than is lost.  You must be careful, as best you can.  The honesty necessary to define yourself by truth, opens the door to the passage between souls.  If your friend is true as well, that love will become a journey between life and life.  When you have joined in the creation of a new life together, only then will you understand the true blessing and romance of a passionate embrace, time will never erase.  Therefrom what we owe from sex, or as sex, is dependent upon what love, truth, hope, and responsibilities need from us to survive.  What is given in simple sex, is acceptance.  What is taken by lust, is your desire to search for life.  What is rape, distinguishes the search to play god/ and that is an evil descent from life.  Sexual pleasures are a possibility without love/ but it is addictive; and all addicts lose their sense of pleasure with excess.   The foundation of sexual interchange, is then no one is owed, except where lust or rape steal or break hearts/ or take what no one has a right to take, your body.  What is owed, in these situations is determined by fraud or destruction; women get to choose/ society gets to govern, by vote.  But the evidence must be real. The intentional transfer of a deadly disease, is 2nd degree murder.  The intentional willful transfer of a sexually incurable disease, is cause for civil lawsuits taking everything; with the maximum  purpose of demanding you are a slave.  
We potentially owe, and person helped by grace, the possibility to heal:   it is a choice, but if that person needed your truth “I do love you”/ then they do need to heal as well.  NOT a demand, but a reality based upon truth and need/ a potential to help them find someone else, or educate them in what must be done to find someone else.

In every sense, sexual behaviors are intended to be a gift between friends, a man and woman who love each other enough to say:   “I care, and do share”.  The consequent reality however is, once sexual relations start, all other base levels of friendship can be lost because one or the other refuses to become more involved than sex.  Sex can end the progression of romance/ because it stops the need to communicate in any other serious way.  Got what I want or need/ don’t need, or want;   to do anything else, for you.  This is not a gift anymore, but a possession.  Not the purpose of love anymore, but a desire for sex.  Because of that:  Sexual expression WILL either make you more in love/ or less.  Loneliness is a need, do not take it lightly, but do not give your life to another, unless you are prepared to accept the price that must be paid, both now and in the future.  Your primary responsibility is TO YOURSELF, because if you die/ or fail/ or become lost:   it is the potential end of love in you/ and that translates into a lost eternity as well.   Choose wisely, do not be “bought or sold”.

You do owe a relationship between members of your own race or color first/ because anything less contrasts the balance between male and female/ thereby adding aggression, competition, and jealousy.  And MORE will lose, based strictly on race or color; when happiness would have been better served, if this had not been.  It is not a foundation demanded by sex or love/ it is a reality derived from balance and the choice to be fair, honest, and true to the people who brought you into life.
You do owe a relationship in justice, to those who are getting a divorce.  Simply define and create “three choices”/ allowing either the judge or the people involved to choose one of these three.  A panel of divorcees shall decide the case/ the judge rules by the law.

You do owe every child a greater duty than an adult/ because they are at your mercy.  You do owe every child, the possibility of happiness, security, and hope.   None deserve to be abandoned.  But reality will not hold all the tears men have created.  The future is being destroyed, and the reality is: without truth to lead, and adults who care, cannibalism will invade. The tragedy of leadership, is an end to all good things/ because greed knows nothing of value;   it serves only pride and power, and lust.  In america, the leaders, and every single citizen who participated in greed:   chose bankruptcy, and death for the future.  Unless critical change occurs quickly, every child is at risk of being prey. The leadership is a failure/ the insanity prepared will be horrific. We   OWE   every child more than this.  WE OWE them a life, a future, an opportunity to share happiness and a home.  You built the road to hell instead.

We owe each other the right to participate.  We owe each other a fair and legitimate job, at a respectful pay.  We owe each other limits and boundaries on power or pride so that all can share in the blessings of this earth.  We owe each other, the simple truth:   healthcare beyond limits you will choose for yourselves, is simply not possible.  You have lied to come this far.  Your leaders allowed debts and delusion to be fantasies; but   soon people will demand to be paid, and there is no truth in the numbers, which means there will be no service to those who cannot participate as equals, providing work, instead of debt.  You are bankrupt; and that means everything not essential to life will be abandoned to survive.  Greed is at fault/ foolishness and university combined to destroy mercy/ failure and the disease of pride created corruption, and the nation will soon be in crisis, far more than today. Because what you believed, has vanished; and what is left requires critical change. Or the tragedy of your greed/ the desolation of your ways/ the endless destruction of “I/ we WANT” is the end of this earth.  No nation has been more greedy/ no nation has been more vile in the trashing of a planet/ no nation is more at fault for destruction, although many have certainly tried: than america.  “I got mine”/ is merely the banner and trumpets sounding for “we took theirs”.  Just as I WANT/ is the end of “OUR home”; a selfishness without end, on a planet overrun by human beings. There is no possibility you can survive, even as a world;    without change.

We do owe the immigrant a possibility for better/ not because they built anything here/ not because their ways are better (if they were, these would not be here).  We owe them because this world increases by 2 million more births than deaths each and every single week.  And they must be allowed an opportunity to live.  But they owe us, a reality in birth control within their own nation and their own lives, that demands: RESPECT FOR OUR FUTURE AS A WORLD.  And that means no more than one child may be born to any man or woman (two to a couple).  Without zero growth across the world, there is no hope.  Without a true commitment to life, the needs of every child growing today will outstrip every possibility even with zero growth today. [an adult needs more resources, than a child].  Without honesty, the foundation reality death is a friend to life on earth, by opening the door for the young to enter in;   you fail life.

Money is: the resources required to work/ and the humanity, meaning time, talent, and effort to do that work.  It is not a number, it is life challenged to be free by trading time and effort today, for opportunity tomorrow.  But the numbers have made you slaves/ and the thieves have already plundered every opportunity you planned for, or believed in. The numbers seek to destroy everything but the rich, making all people slaves by an economic stimulus plan that gives every opportunity for the rich to “own it all”. [IT IS NOT believed to be the intent/ BUT IT IS THE REALITY].  Fail to stop the destruction, and you receive civil war. It is inevitable, and within three years.  Our work, our time, our resources as a world, CAN BE USED to build OUR FUTURE;   rather than being exploited for “their/ your selfishness”.  It is a choice.  Choosing what is in the best interest for all;   is absolutely critical for a possibility to survive.  Making hard choices, even when people die/ whine/ cry/ faint/ fail/ become foolish/ or hate:   are necessary to return life and nature to hope.  Can’t be that bad?  “The american economy couldn’t possibly fail”/ genetic mutilation couldn’t possibly end “the body of life” on earth/ civil wars/ nuclear bombs/ the end of food/ the loss of ocean life; and more;   are all waiting to prove you wrong!  The liars are many/ the fools are determined/ the failures steal everything they can/ and the hateful will make plans and proceed to destroy anything they can.  Just how it is/ “the building of society by men”.  If you cannot wake up in time/ life is over.  If you want, “to believe” in men, you will receive exactly what you deserve “endless talk to distract you/ greed, to make you aware “vulnerable”/ selfishness, to insist I WANT, and will consume, “get out of my way”:   and not a thing for life, but liars and fools gambling they can kill you, before you can kill them.  “It’s the american way”. 

We owe in healthcare, the greatest good, for the greatest numbers of people.  It is that simple/ and it does mean truth will decide when “this is simply too much of a burden for the worker to bear”.  It is not “the government” that will decide/ it is the people who will demand:   fantasy is over, and we can afford no more than this, death is a fact of life.  Reality is a truth created and defined by the evidence.  There is no more delusion/ there will be no more fantasy.  You will choose, one citizen times one vote; but you will not be allowed to destroy the immigrant, they are life too.  Even so, at a level not less than 80% of what you choose for yourselves, those who can be helped shall be.  You will make them “the attendant”/ you will educate them or the young as doctors/ you will control all mediation, and rule over all medical equipment/ and you will turn healthcare into healthcare, by removing the business.  Owning the buildings and machines/ contracting the workers/ and producing critical information and educations from early grade school on up every grade until school is left behind.  Functionally creating competition and knowledge so that healthcare can become an aid to more critical cases as time goes on.  There is a day, when we all owe society the reality of our own death.  There is a day, when the child does come first.  Choose for life, not for failure.  There is a difference.
Either you will live within reality, accepting the truth of what you have done to yourselves; and work for better.  Or you will fail, because your leadership and your greed have taken away the opportunities to do more. Just how it is.